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Bad night became a worse day

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So, post bleeding and cramps overnight I had my scan with the EPAU this afternoon and unfortunately I have miscarried. Nothing to see. Awful bloody day. I don't think, looking at what came out this morning, if that was 'it', that I have been growing anything for a few weeks. So no being lucky with no morning sickness, there was no morning sickness because nothing was going on. So ladies, be thankful for feeling queasy!

You've all been great, really supportive and I hope to be back with good news at some point in the future. Let's hope it doesn't take another year to get this far again. But for now, this is me signing out. I wish you all the best with your beautiful babies x

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Oh bless u so sorry to hear ur sad news...I hope u have some good news in the not so distant future xx

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Dozymum

I am very sorry to hear your news. I really hope you are back again soon x

I am really really sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and my best wishes to hear back from you soon xx

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scoffcat

So sorry for your loss. Sending loads of love your way.

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Neska

So sorry hun. Hope to see you on this forum soon. Take care xx

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dort

Am so sorry my dear.

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gigglysheep

awww doris I'm so sorry to read this. terrible news. i hope uve got a good shoulder to cry on.

I miscarried really early at 5/6 weeks with my first pregnancy and me and my partner didnt have sex until i had had a full proper period. Then I got pregnant again within that month. Aparently u are more fertile after a miscarriage for a certain period of time. hopefully we will see u on here again with better news and a little one growing away healthy really soon xxx

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Envgirl

So sorry to hear this, thinking of you x

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candiceandsesame

Oh I'm so sorry. Hopefully it'll be all perfect for you next time. Take care x

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Dancing_doris

Thank you all, you're making me cry more by being so nice but I think that might happen for a while! Meantime my Hubbie is helping me drown my sorrows in a big glass of red wine and lots of chocolate. Gigglysheep, thank you, I do think we need to just get right back on it, and I'm going to be positive in at least we know we can get pregnant. See you all soon hopefully. X

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Nesses

My thoughts are with you, hope you are back with happier news soon

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MadCatLady465

So, so sorry to hear your news.... I've had four miscarriages and now have a mad nearly-two year old, so stay strong xx

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hannah_fraser

So sorry for your loss, hope to hear from you soon with good news xx

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DrFluffy

Keep strong, and make sure you use those around you for support at this sad time. X

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HayleyP

This happened to me in June this year and I'm pregnant again already. Don't give up hope x x x

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rrp1

So sorry for your loss I've had three. The only thing I can say for the future is doing worry if next time you don't get morning sickness , I was sick on a daily basis for 12 weeks and it had stopped grown at 4 weeks. There is a chance same is happening now. Just relax stay positive dont worry about it and it will work out in the end. Lots of hugs and kisses xxxxx

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JNDuce12-13

I'm so sorry, be hopeful! It will happen before you know it, I had misscarriage at 21+3 and had to give birth, but I'm now pregnant and 31 weeks. Everything works out in the end, have a good cry you'll feel better. X

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jowalk6

I am so sorry for your loss. I had a sb last year at full term. My thoughts are with you and your family. be strongx

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DrFluffy in reply tojowalk6

That's terrible. I was petrified of SB (my mum had a term SB). I have no idea how you get the strength to get past something like that. Hugs x

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jowalk6 in reply toDrFluffy

Thank you so much for your message. It is something you never get over, my little girl is in my heart always. I am 35 weeks pregnant with my little boy, and i know I won't rest until he is safe in my arms x

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Ljameson

im so sorry to hear your heartbreaking news x

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2princes1princess

Aww so sorry for your loss hun :-( really is a horrible time ive had two but have gone on to have three beauties xx good luck for future xx

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Gabriana-Lynn

I am terribly sorry for your lost. I also went through a miscarriage also. Well two to be exact. I was 12 weeks my first and 21 weeks with my baby girl. I miscarried my first on september 26,2012. And i recently miscarried my baby girl on August 1,2013. I know how you feel and i hope that god blesses you with a healthy living baby. I can't say it will be okay, because it all depends on how you cope with your lost. I hope you conceive early! Hope to hear from you soon! My prayers and condolences from my family to yours <3

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Gabriana-Lynn

I am terribly sorry for your lost. I also went through a miscarriage also. Well two to be exact. I was 12 weeks my first and 21 weeks with my baby girl. I miscarried my first on september 26,2012. And i recently miscarried my baby girl on August 1,2013. I know how you feel and i hope that god blesses you with a healthy living baby. I can't say it will be okay, because it all depends on how you cope with your lost. I hope you conceive early! Hope to hear from you soon! My prayers and condolences from my family to yours <3

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