Sudden loss

[Esmeruth7]

Well dear friends it is a week today and this exact time they were working on my dear husband to no avail. The agony continues because the coroner rang me yesterday to say it could be another 2 weeks before they can arrange the post mortem. Thank you all so much for all your kind words, it really helps a lot. I am a very private person who holds everything in but it has really helped me to open up on this forum.

[DorsetLady PMRGCAuk volunteer]

Sorry to hear you have to wait for postmortem, it must be very upsetting being left in limbo. But unfortunately procedures have to be followed.

Keep as strong as you can, sending best wishes 🌸

[Esmeruth7 in reply to DorsetLady]

Thankyou

[OonaSt]

This exact situation happened to my uncle and now my lovely aunt is grieving. Such a shock to get up in a.m. and find your spouse gone and I’m so sorry Esmeruth. So happy for you too to have had such a wonderful partner and also, if I can say, that he past away with no pain. You’re also very fortunate to have a daughter so close by to be there for you. During this time, please also know you have many blessings and this site is also one of them. Take care of yourself, mentally and physically. Sending love and kindness from the u.s.

[Esmeruth7 in reply to OonaSt]

Thankyou.

[Happyexplorer]

Just read your post Esmeruth and am so sorry for your loss and the delay in the postmortem. Very unsettling being at the mercy of bureaucracy at such a very sad time. Sending you thoughts and warm sunshine from Sydney 😢🤗🧸🌤️

[Esmeruth7 in reply to Happyexplorer]

Thankyou. He absolutely loved Australia and plan was to visit for his 80th birthday in June. We have done so many trips over there and been all round.

[Merryfield]

Condolences on this terrible loss. Understand your frustration. We had to wait months for my son’s final autopsy report. Reading mystery after mystery and traveling kept me busy plus a huge sobbing cry every day. Also, avoiding group events but seeing friends one or two at a time.

[Esmeruth7 in reply to Merryfield]

Thankyou. I agree cannot face more than one to one at the moment

[Shiv14]

So sorry for your loss

[Stills]

I understand how you feel, when I lost my brother in unexpected circumstances we waited a month. The vacum feeling is immense I know. Take each moment as it comes and then the next and gradually the time passes. Tomorrow will be a different day and each tomorrow a little easier. I will keep you in my thoughts.

[Esmeruth7 in reply to Stills]

Thankyou

[Lochy]

Just sending you a big hug. It’s such a horrible time, I’m thinking of you.

[Esmeruth7 in reply to Lochy]

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[Tescohednesford]

Again so sorry to hear that another thing has been thrown at you....Hope you are able to keep you PMR manageable whilst under so much pressure and upset.

Sending regards to you and your family.

[Esmeruth7 in reply to Tescohednesford]

Thankyou

[Dinahmite]

Oh I am so sorry for your loss... sending love.

[Esmeruth7 in reply to Dinahmite]

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[Hopingsail]

Such a shame - so sorry for you.

[Esmeruth7 in reply to Hopingsail]

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[Esmeruth7 in reply to Hopingsail]

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[Esmeruth7 in reply to Hopingsail]

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[Booklover57]

Sending my deepest sympathy to you. Take care of yourself as much as you can 🪻🌷🌼 x

[Esmeruth7 in reply to Booklover57]

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[Temeraire]

So very sorry, such an enormous life changing shock. My lovely Dad died suddenly too, many years ago. The only comfort was he didn’t suffer. Sending my heartfelt sympathy. X

[Esmeruth7 in reply to Temeraire]

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[Littlenana1]

so sorry for your loss Xxxx

[Esmeruth7 in reply to Littlenana1]

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[scottygirl73]

Deepest sympathy on the loss of your Husband.Sorry you have to wait for post mortem,keeping you in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.x

[Esmeruth7 in reply to scottygirl73]

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[Esmeruth7 in reply to scottygirl73]

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[Blackcat1M]

sorry for your loss 🙏

[Esmeruth7 in reply to Blackcat1M]

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[5lupins]

putting my arms around you to help you hold on tight through this sad time. Loving someone is so hard but a very precious thing. Thinking of you. 🌸

[Esmeruth7 in reply to 5lupins]

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[Tiggy70]

So sorry for your loss. Thinking of you xx

[Esmeruth7 in reply to Tiggy70]

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[Scarysit]

so sorry for your loss, take one day at a time and try not to think ahead too much. Sending love x

[Esmeruth7 in reply to Scarysit]

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[KingWilf]

I’m so sorry for your loss, what a dreadful shock for you. Please take care of yourself and listen to your body. Sending love and hugs 🤗 x