I have just emerged from 4 days of migraine post hosting Christmas lunch and having house full of guests. Had to cancel various social activities at very short notice and still feel washed out. My partner has fibromyalgia and he is pottery and shaky. I am the obvious person in our family to host Christmas lunch but the whole festive season is proving too much for both of us. Does anyone have any tips for surviving Christmas and for saying nicely but firmly no to people. At the moment hibernation seems the only possible option.