Am I a lesbian ?

Today I was shopping for bikinis as I am going on a pool and spa holiday soon I am a 17 years old girl. While looking at the pictures of the women I felt a bit horny and turned on and excited . But when it was men with six packs I still felt it was fit and looked at the dick area to see whether it was big or small . However it wasn't as much as the stronger feeling for the women . I have fancied boys and have had an ex boyfriend before , does this mean I am now bi or even worse a lesbian ? I heard some girls watch porn does that mean they are secretly bi or lesbian ? I used to think I was straight but now I am doubting it . I have thoughts about sucking dick and tits I'm actually worried . Please advice cheers .

[TransGirl]

Hey i'm lesbian and i was like that to i was always into boys because i had a few boyfriends but then i realise that the feeling were dying and i feel like my sexually coming to and end then i meet this girl and that when i realise i had strong feeling for this girl i told her about it and she say it fine and we date and we just click

So my advice is date a girl and see how it feels that what i did and i been lesbian ever since October 2018 and i am happy with the Girl i am with and we have out first baby on the way thanks to IVF

[Hidden in reply to TransGirl]

Good for you , I'm happy for you two congratulations and thanks . Did your parents take the news well ? If you don't mind me asking that is , I don't think my parents will accept as they are Asian and my dad find it hard to take that I am a tomboy and he was worried I would be a lesbian it took a lot of reassurance to tell him and my friends that I only liked men's clothes and video games but still was heterosexual . I don't think it would end well if he knew I was having thoughts about pussy . I've never met anyone that is lesbian before I had mates that were bi and gay but they were both boys so idk what to do

[TransGirl in reply to Hidden]

They did not take it well at first well my mum did but my dad was different he did not accept it at all. But as for you just be upfront with them tell them that you are Lesbian because it who you are and leave it as that it going to take time for them to understand that you are Lesbian and you are proud of who you are but in due time your mum and dad will accept you for who you are it may not happen over not but they will accept you as who you are...

[Kaielevenseven]

Don't worry!

Enjoy being aroused. It's part of being human.

Bodies, whether they're male or female or in transition, are sexy and lovely things.

Think about people you meet and ask yourself who you might feel safe to respond to. Sex (M,F,T etc) is important, but it's only one dimension of who they are.

Hope this helps!

Kai