Hi. My 4 year old has been using a potty/toilet since summer 2018. He has always been a bit funny about toilets, he likes to go on his own, won't use them if they smell, look dirty to him or if he just doesn't like them.
Apart from a handful of times he simply won't poo on a toilet. He holds it in until he has his bedtime nappy on and waits until he is on his own to do it. We have tried bribery, getting him to sit on the toilet and distract him, leaving him on his own in the loo to give him privacy...but nothing works...someone suggested taking his nappy away at bedtime but I feel that will mean he holds it in for even longer.
Any ideas to help him overcome his toilet phobia?