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Hi im a 40 year old male who has a proplem with my penis size and i dnt no what to do am so depressed

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Hi bert hope you feeling ok. Whats the problem you getting so depressed about. To me its just the way we are made should it be large or small.

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joetxn43

A bit of specifics would help understand the depression and its cause, Bert. What about its size is so depressing?

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Roger2Dodger

As Long it is functional , and you are healthy why does it matter? Do you think you need 10-12 inches to satisfy your partner. I think not. You say "I don't know what to do." Well, my friend there is nothing you can do. There is more depressing things in this world than your penis size. If your partner has a problem with it, then you need to move on.

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telboy15

I absolutely agree with the comment by Roger. Penis size is no problem unless you work in the 'porn industry'. This forum is really for those with real medical problems and worries. My penis has never been large, but it managed to give us four children, now adults with kids of their own. Having had my prostate removed a year ago, and now having no erections or ejaculate at all, I think myself lucky. Do stop moaning and get on with life. If your partner can't go along with the situation, dump her (or him).

Terry

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ng27868168

If the size of your penis is the biggest worry you have, consider yourself VERY FORTUNATE!! There are no doubt more than a few other more worrisome health issues coming along on life's road.

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Vitruviusman

What is it about the penis size that you are unhappy about?

Bert1975. I'm sorry that you feel depressed. There are so many avenues open to you! You need to first reach out to some real people who may be able to help you. Your difficulties not only lie in the psychological realm but the physical as well. Get a counselor and a urologist. And check out franktalk.org where there are hundreds of men in the same boat as you.

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sammyd123

The penis varies in size with the average being around six inches in length. There are longer and shorter ones. If yours is around that length, then you are normal. If not, if it is functioning properly, getting erections, having orgasms, what is the problem? Are you satisfying your partner? If so size really doesn't matter. Most men would like a little more or less depending on their personal size. Relax and enjoy what you have. It cannot be made any larger.

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BulletAyurvedic

You are here for your penis size then i guess it definitely small in size because if it is big in size then there will be no issue , hence Mr. Bert you have to take some pills with doctor consult and some penis related exercises that is done by penis enlargement pumps and all that you are depressed for . If there are any other issue you depressed for let me know that .

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James78

Please don't let it get you down! I've heard that a lot of women actually find sex with "bigger" men painful, which detracts from the pleasure. It's also good to focus more on foreplay and pleasing a woman in other ways. If you satisfy them manually/orally before intercourse that could help your confidence a lot!

The key thing is that you're happy, healthy and have a great personality - if a woman is worth getting to know she'll stick around for those reasons alone.