A family member has decompensated cirrhosis, he is jaundice and has swelling of the legs. He can’t sleep at night constant wake ups saying he needs to go for a pee but nothing there, he walks so slowly and is getting bad leg cramps. He drinks 3-5 pints of lager a day - more at weekend. Socially he will not give it up, says his life is over without a drink. How can we make him stop? Says he doesn’t want to drink every day (so his views are changing) but we don’t know how to get any help. Because he won’t commit to fully stopping the alcohol workers won’t help. I’m sure if he could see an improvement he would try more to stop but he sees no hope in sight. Does anyone have any similar experiences? What can we as a family do?