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Lost the battle and the war

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Just wanted to say my partner passed away at Christmas. He had ALD, refractory ascites with weekly drains and an incarcerated peri-umbilical hernia.

He could not stop drinking... If you are the partner of someone with ALD please, stop nagging them to stop and value the time you have together, the hernia killed my man, not the liver disease (secondary cause along with alcohol excess).

Beg every professional you can for help and don't ever give up... Because I promise you, when your soulmate is gone and you can't get them back, you'll see a hundred other things you could have tried...

If you can, take a step back and then hold them close and enjoy the good times you have...my world has ended... Please don't let yours xxx

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AyrshireK

So sorry for your loss.

Look after yourself.

Katie x

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Lippy42

So sorry for your loss sending you a hug 💕

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Turvy

So very sorry for your loss.

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Glenfaba123

So sorry to read this please take care of yourself x

Take very good care of yourself,my thoughts are with you at such a sad time.x

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Zukosmile07

So sorry for your loss, We on here really do understand.........

Danny x

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Ewife

Sincerest condolences, thinking of you.Xx

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Rockie153

Sorry to hear about your loss. Virtual hugs 🤗 and keep the good memories in your heart ❤️ forever 😘

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joeburger

Heart sore for your loss, take care xx

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isi123

So sorry for your loss.

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Aotea2012

I’m so sorry to read this. My sincere condolences. Take care.

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Muz-ahmed

Deeply sorry to hear about your loss.

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Maisy2020

So sorry for your loss.

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Dogbot

So sorry to hear your news our thoughts are with you 💕

We send you our sincere condolences for your loss. Do take care.

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Twinklu

Aw sweetheart so sorry for your loss, l know there is nothing we as a group can say to help make you feel better but there are loads of members around 24 7 who will be more than prepared to listen if you want to destress about a world that isn't fair and sometimes isn't understanding, hugs and love sent your way xx

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pushthrough

I'm so very sorry for your loss. I hope your words help others!

😪

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kyia

I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you for your wise words. They need to be shared far and wide xxx

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Truex

My sincerest condolences

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ABD58

So sorry for your loss.

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Witcat

I am so sorry for your loss.I lost my husband 2 years ago and it is so hard to accept.I hope you have a good network of friends and family around you, they will help you when you need it.

Be kind to yourself too. ❤️

May he now Rest in Peace 🙏

Sending a huge hug 🤗x

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