We have just received our members pack and a leaflet concerning end of life has really put my husband who has Copd and Bronchiectasis in a desperate situation. He has taken to his bed, saying he is selling our car because he has not long to live. What do I do now, he refuses to get out of bed saying there is no point. Why did the leaflet have to be sent to a seriously man, surely the carer should have been sent it. We are trying to keep his spirits up and he receives a book about dying. I spoke to our sons as I am at my wits end, he is not the easiest of men but now he has totally lost it and does not care about anything. He refuses to walk and when he tries to stand up he collapses. His lungs are slowly dying as he wont walk and it is all because he thinks he is near the end. He is supposed to exercise to get his strength back but he refuses as he says what's the point. The matron and physio tell him to exercise but he says he cant. When he goes to the toilet he collapses.