How did I get here?: I found a second... - Lung Conditions C...

Lung Conditions Community Forum

56,239 members66,864 posts

How did I get here?

Sharp5Flat13 profile image
10 Replies

I found a second cousin once removed on social media. His great aunt was my great grandmother. He gave me some Intel my mother never did. It turns out my great grandmother was living in Newington, London and wanted to marry her deceased husband’s brother. Since Canon law and the Catholic Church prohibited such a wedding, they moved to California to avoid running into any church people.

And Bob’s your uncle. 😀

Written by
Sharp5Flat13 profile image
Sharp5Flat13
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .
10 Replies
Damon1864 profile image
Damon1864Volunteer

How interesting, just goes to show what goes on in families. Have a goodnight and take care 😊 Bernadette and Jack 🐕 xxxxxx

HungryHufflepuff profile image
HungryHufflepuff

That's so interesting! Families have so many hidden or lost stories.

sassy59 profile image
sassy59

How fascinating S5F13, fate brought you and your second cousin together with a little help from social media of course. Great story. Xxx👍😃

RoadRunner44 profile image
RoadRunner44

What an interesting story Sharp. I have been researching my family for quite a few years now and found such very interesting things back then. I dont mind what I find good or bad, after all, those things happened a long time ago and its all in the past. Perhaps you will be motivated to now do more research into your family. Good luck.

Carnival567 profile image
Carnival567

My brother discovered that my great grandparents were not married until after their five children grew up and his first wife died. No easy divorce in the nineteenth century!

Sharp5Flat13 profile image
Sharp5Flat13 in reply toCarnival567

Fabulous, Carnival567.

teenieleek profile image
teenieleek

My mother gave me all the family birth certificates and marriage certificates a few years ago. I discovered, by simple arithmetic, that my great grandmother had lied about her age on the occasion of her second marriage (to a much younger man). Second marriages were common, men died young and women needed someone to provide for the children. Women have always been pragmatic. I thought it was hilarious and hats off to her especially since in her (second) wedding portrait she bore more than a passing resemblance to Les Dawson! You know, when he did that face and the arms under the bosom? I’m full of admiration for her chutzpah!

Sharp5Flat13 profile image
Sharp5Flat13 in reply toteenieleek

Teenieleek…the bravery of the men only matched by the bravery of the women that married them!

teenieleek profile image
teenieleek

Absolutely! They did what had to be done and made practical arrangements that would be shocking to our modern notions of relationships.

peege profile image
peege

It didn't stop Henry V111 marrying his older brother's wife Katherine of Aragon! 😉

Not what you're looking for?

You may also like...

Did I get it wrong?

Not much fun being in the position of having to tell the other half that the garden needs...
eightyplus profile image

Get me to the church on time

I mentioned in my last blog the fact we were supposed to be at a wedding today, my brother's...
Poppin profile image

How did you get here? What caused your COPD, ACOS, Bronchiectasis or whatever?

I saw this thread running on another forum and thought it was interesting. For me I had mild asthma...
ck101 profile image

I did it

went to Waitrose yesterday, got all my favourites, then stuck at till couldn’t empty trolly but the...
adenough profile image

Smugglers and the Demise of the Great Auk...

Getting slightly obsessed with a tree I'm researching for some-one...why are other peoples trees so...

Moderation team

See all
AsthmaandLung profile image
AsthmaandLungAdministrator
Claire_ALUK profile image
Claire_ALUKAdministrator
moderator_AandLUK profile image
moderator_AandLUKAdministrator

Content on HealthUnlocked does not replace the relationship between you and doctors or other healthcare professionals nor the advice you receive from them.

Never delay seeking advice or dialling emergency services because of something that you have read on HealthUnlocked.