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Why diets don't work #29

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Since we have family down this weekend and 12 for dinner Sam ordered four new dinner plates and four new side plates from M and S which arrived yesterday. Hells bells and buckets of blood have you seen the size of a standard dinner plate these days?

The side plates are the size of my Grandma's old dinner plates and the dinner plates bigger than her meat plate. I fear we are going to look a little stingy with portions if we have to use these new plates , or maybe claim it is nouvelle cuisine. lol 😁 No wonder people have trouble keeping weight off!

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Jay10 profile image
Jay10

New ones don’t fit in the dishwasher either!!

Aprilbday profile image
Aprilbday

12 dinner guests! Hats off to you both! 🙂 What’s on the menu? I’d serve a lot of bread . lol.

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BobDVolunteer in reply to Aprilbday

Friday night Lasagne , or Mac and cheese for the veggies plus roast spuds, kale or runner beans. Cheescake to follow. Saturday morning full English breakfast ( we get through 4 doz eggs and I toast two white loafes over two days) . Saturday evening down to Tiffin the fantastic new Indian Street Food restaurant in Barnstaple but only eight of us as the boys plus two are drifting. Sunday morning full English again then they go home and we sleep. The AGA really works hard for its living. Sam has been cooking all morning whilst I washing up and vacuuming and dusting and cleaning the house to within an inch of its life. The following weekend at Patients Day will be a breeze in comparison.

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Aprilbday in reply to BobD

“….and then we sleep” sounds about right. The menu is admirable and yummy. I love it all. Perhaps sometime this week I’d love to understand Patient’s Day.

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BobDVolunteer in reply to Aprilbday

8th October is the start of Heart Rhythm Congress 2023 in Birmingham (England) and the firsts day is always Patient's Day where there are no drug companies or technical firms presenting ( it is illegal for drug companies etc to interact with patients directly) . Lots of eminent professors , EPs and consultants give up their time to present on various subjects connected with AF, as well as the other aspects of arrhythmias which Arrhythmia Alliance deal with such as syncope and sudden adult death.

First AFA session in the afternoon is some bloke called Bob chatting to our CEO Trudie Lobhan about what no doubt I will soon learn but likely cover the forum.

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Frances123 in reply to BobD

Does Sam hire you out Bob?

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Autumn_Leaves in reply to Frances123

Do you want to hire him?

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Frances123 in reply to Autumn_Leaves

vacuuming, washing up, dusting, cleaning……you bet I do! 🤣

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BobDVolunteer in reply to Frances123

Trust me it doesn't happen very often since Sam retired but I used to do lot when we first moved here and she went out to work.

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Cavalierrubie in reply to BobD

With plates like that you need to serve some Green Giant. 😂 Hats off to you both for being good sports and hope you all have a fantastic get together. 🥳🥳🥳

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fairgo45 in reply to BobD

I've just bought Jamie Oliver dinner plates and they also are huge whose idea was it to increase the size that much!

in reply to fairgo45

Well- the sizes should be listed on the description- I bought some simple white glass plates from ikea for our everyday use and they are smaller and fine for all our meals. I know what you mean though ! But the plate doesn’t HAVE to be full….

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Yes your right and my plate is not full but Bob's point is correct why make them so big in the first place,my Jamie oliver white side plate is twice as big as my old ones I might just use that as my dinner plate.

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Karendeena in reply to BobD

Sounds fab, can I come? 😂

2learn profile image
2learn in reply to BobD

Sounds like fat and cholestorol overdose, throw in plenty of alcohol and you can have Afib for the next month. Good luck.

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BobDVolunteer in reply to 2learn

Baileys collada. Hmmmm.

Rainfern profile image
Rainfern

This would account for why I could only find giant-size trays and placemats the size of a small table in Ikea! Have a lovely time with your family.

Jalia profile image
Jalia

This is the way it is in restaurants these days Bob! Small/ normal size portion in the centre and bits of faff on the perimeter.

Autumn_Leaves profile image
Autumn_Leaves

Wine glasses are enormous these days.

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Blearyeyed

I think that's the point of the large plates, it's a styling thing.In the world of posh food and MandS and today's Instagram hype people love these plates so that they can create a picture of the food they are about to eat with a lovely clean plate framing it .

Apparently it makes your organic bangers and ten zillion root mash look amazing on your Facebook page!

I shouldn't complain.Since my heart issues meant I had to change from being a land artist to photography I've had a few commissions for food photography using these giant plates, stone slabs and even helium balloons to photograph people's food products so that they can charge three times as much for them. It does make a nice still life but it doesn't make the food taste any better!

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Angie06

My dinner were too large to fit in my kitchen cupboard!

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Mugsy15 in reply to Angie06

You must have a great appetite if your dinner were too big to go in a cupboard.

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Angie06 in reply to Mugsy15

Haha I've just realised what I said, meant to say dinner plates. 🤣🤣

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Singwell

😆 I haven't heard Hells Bells and Buckets of Blood for ages! Made my day already Bob.

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Windlepoons

Agreed! ☺️ I bought some recently and the dinner plates are too high for the dishwasher basket so I have to wash them up separately. They are pretty though so I will put up with it. With shrinkflation to pack sizes being utilised by a lot of food companies why are the plates getting bigger? 😁

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Rosemaryb1349 in reply to Windlepoons

I think most dishwashers have a height adjustable top drawer to accommodate larger/taller items.

ETHEL103 profile image
ETHEL103

Note to self,look for side plates lol.Did you know in the big houses of times gone by guests would be weighed on entering then leaving after a weekend stay.Think yours will pass muster.

Jalia profile image
Jalia in reply to ETHEL103

Isn't' weighing in ' the norm at The House of Windsor at Christmas??

fairgo45 profile image
fairgo45 in reply to ETHEL103

Isn't that right that the royal family do that at Christmas?

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Maggimunro

And that is one of the reasons there is such an increase in obesity.

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Desanthony

Yes back in the 60's a standard dinner plate I believe was 10" now I think some of them are up to 12 or 14" Ours are far too big but we never fill them! I feel ill if I see a heaped up dinner plate like my Nan used to do for my Dad - thing is he ate it all and never went over 9st 4lb I still have my great grandma's dinner plates - no used as decoration - now youve started this I am going to measure them.

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ibuputih

Fancy borrowing my new wine glasses to go with your plates, Bob? My husband can’t stop teasing me about them.

Our local tapas place has fancy schmancy big glasses for cocktails, sangria and also wine. I thought I’d like some - especially for when our more ‘exuberant’ friends visit and I watch in horror when they wave their glasses full of red wine around.

It’s a joke in our family that I’ve never really got the hang of metric - I’m a lbs and pints person. The glasses I wanted were very expensive, until I found some online that were really reasonable and well reviewed. I ordered 2 packs of 6 and when delivered thought the packaging was vast. The glasses are lovely but 850 ml each ….. Cheers!

in reply to ibuputih

That’s the trouble having to buy things from photos- scale is hard to judge!

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Auriculaire

I buy many household items and all our clothes at the Secours Populaire a nationwide chain of huge charity shops . There I can still get old fashioned size dinner plates . The only new one I have had recently was a free one with stamps collected at the supermarket. It was enormous and too big even to give to my husband. It sits unused at the bottom of the plate pile . I always eat off an entrée plate which is between a side plate and a dinner plate. Nobody uses sideplates here though you can buy them. It's considered OK to get crumbs all over the table and in old fashioned restaurants the waiter brushes them away before dessert with a special implement. I agree with others- this huge plate business is a style thing. Wine is sold here in measures of 10ml or 12.5 ml so you know how much is in your glass.

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Ducky2003 profile image
Ducky2003

🤣. You want to see the size of my bowls....... that's not a euphemism 😁.

Vonnegut profile image
Vonnegut

Did you not read what size they were before ordering them or were they just described as dinner plates with no size given?

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Dodie117

That’s quite funny as I bought M&S budget pack of 4 dinner plates, 4 side plates and 4 bowls £20. They are really small. I was quite pleased as have been trying to find small dinner plates for some time and these are really small!! Diet here I come 😂

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MoyB

I bought our last dinner service from a charity shop as it was the only way I could get plates and bowls that would fit in the dishwasher!

Not only are modern plates large, they are also heavy. Waiting staff must need biceps like Popeye's to carry the number they do.

I'll stick with smaller plates and extra food in the middle of the table for people to help themselves.

Let us know where you are, Bob, and I'll pop along to help with the leftovers. It sounds good.

Xx Moy

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petmice

"Hells bells and buckets of blood" gave me a giggle! It was an accurate response though. "Supersize me" has now extended to everything. I have been using small (dessert) plates and bowls for a number of years now to help me control my eating (this includes avoiding seconds). When I do need to use a big plate it really is hard resisting overfilling it. On those rare occasions when we have people over I use paper plates - not only are there fewer dishes to wash, but they tend to be smaller. Good luck with your dinner!

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