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Yesterday I made people mad at me because I can't run the roads like I did. I also am mad because my husband said he would get help to clean the house up. He tried and failed twice. First time the people came just to watch TV. The second one drove seven hours tho help with my husband's mental health. So I asked for a fundraiser just for 300 us dollars to hire a maid service that would wash walls and vacuum funiture and so on. I got yelled at for hurting someone's feeling because my husband's mental health was far more important that anything else. My youngest son called to blow up on me because he had a bad day at work. Well least he gets to work. I got to fold a small basket of laundry and cry my eyes out because of the pain.

Today I have a device check up so I got a shower and I hurt and have a headache. No on in my world cares. So I come here to tell you about it not for sympathy or pity but because some of you understand and some don't and it's ok.

Hugs to all and lots of love.

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CDreamer

Sounds like a bad, hope you have a better one soon.

Seems as though a lot people get angry around you, that is difficult to live with.

Best wishes CD, x

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pottypete1

Try to keep focused on getting yourself better.

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BobDVolunteer

You need to join the F--k it club and stop worrying about others! Stay well

Bob

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Rubyladyemerald

LMAO. I did. I told my problem that if they had nothing nice to say they are not allowed to call me anymore.

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Bagrat

I had small op yesterday,nothing to do with AF. Op started 2pm. Husband picked me up after general anaesthetic at 7.30pm. By that time I had done all I had to do to get home. Obs ok, peed twice and eaten egg sandwich and crisps. Got through the door at home,husband made cup of tea and said " I've decided what I'm having to eat tomorrow night". I asked politely if he'd thought what I was having LOL. We all have families we love . We just don't like how they behave sometimes!!! Sending you calming thoughts. If I'm struggling with a family member, I write a letter to them but DON'T send it till I've calmed down and thought through the pros and cons. Just writing it down gets the angst and anger out of my head and into a safe place. Love Wendy b

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