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I am wife of JD Guy..I am not sure if I'm doing this correctly so tell me if I should do it differently.

My husband has been having a lot of issues which I noticed he put in last post. The Monday after Thanksgiving we ended up in an ER for the first followed by three more ER visits all with hospital stays. His electrolyte balance was way off and very difficult to manage. I thought some of his labs were troubling but oncology weren't alarmed but did schedule him for a PSMA-Pet for tomorrow. (Which we canceled)In the meantime he had a prostate MRI. We hadn't seen the urologist for results but what we seen on his portal we felt the cancer might be active again. Last week Tuesday, when we were again struggling to keep his BP higher then 85/45 we ended up back in ER and admitted to the hospital. By Wed our son who is a nurse, pulled me aside and told me we didn't have much time left. Possibly 24 -48 hours. He called all the family in to come as soon as possible. We had a son and family in GA who left as soon as they could and a son and family in Iraq in missions who got his ticket and packed in 1/2 hour and headed out way. We got my husband home and rallied around, prayers that our son from Iraq could make it. He did , we had a blessed time together around his bed, but are heartbroken to have to tell you he passed on Saturday about 1:45 pm. We couldn't wish him back to his suffering, but oh how we miss him. He showed us all how to live for Jesus and he showed us how to die in the Lord. He was so peaceful. His goal was to always honor Jesus. He was faithful!!

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Broccoli24 profile image
Broccoli24

I’m so sorry for your loss, he sounds like a wonderful and courageous man. Rest in Peace.

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petrig

So sorry for your loss.

We never lose the people we love.They live the rest of our lives with us in our heart.

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DarrylPartner

condolences

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PoetOfTheRoad

I am sorry for your loss. I am glad that you have the solace of your family's support and your deep faith.

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Don717

So sorry to hear this. I hope your family can find some peace and I'm glad they got a chance to be with JD as he passed. I'm sure that made a difference. My family's condolences to yours.

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Pattycakepgh

I am very sorry that you have lost your husband. I enjoyed reading his posts and especially seeing the photos of your family's July 4th celebration and him driving the barrel train with your grandchildren! He was so happy to be with all of you, and I know you will all miss him very much. I hope these wonderful memories help remind you in the days ahead how much he loved you all.

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IKNY

Love to you and your family in this time of loss.

Though I dread posts of this nature, I am heartened by the courage shown by the men and their families in the face of this terrible disease and the impact of treatment.

Blessings of continued health and healing to all.

IK

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Jmr11820

I’m so sorry. Peace be with you and all who loved him.

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PSAed

I am sorry for your loss, may your husband rest in peace.

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dockam

Oh dang it, so sorry to hear of His passing. I'm glad that the family was able to gather around.

Rest in Peace my Brother

Suffer no more

I'll see you on the Other Side

Huge hug from CA

I can add his name to the Ventura Memorial if you'd like

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Orange95

Very sorry for your loss. My condolences.

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Alozmiami69

Rest in peace!!! My deepest condolences and prayers to you and your family

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GoBucks

So sorry. May all the family be blessed with good memories.

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Tall_Allen

I'm so sorry to hear this. He's been through a lot - fortunately he had his faith and you and the rest of his family to help him get through his trials. While he is in a better place, you have to suffer through the pain of his loss. My heart goes out to you.

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Mtnhigh

I'm so sorry to hear of his passing. What a blessing to have the family in attendance. Take care of yourself.

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j-o-h-n

To Mrs. JD-guy and the JD-Keith family,

Keith your John DEAR guy was definitely that, A Dear. I could tell that he was a Wonderful man who loved you all. I wish to quote the last sentence of his last bio (November 25, 2024) which was "we will see what the Lord has for me". Well the Lord wanted Keith to be by his side for eternity. May God Keep him close and may God Bless every member of his and your family.

j-o-h-n

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Elbers123

I am very sorry for your loss. He is resting now. Peace to you and your family.

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TylexGP

So sorry for you and your families loss. Sounds like he was surrounded by love as he passed. Hugs and prayers to your family.

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Tinkudi

🥲🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️

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zeitgeistxx

I grieve for your loss. May your memories of him and the love of your family bring you peace.

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Alicat1

God be with you. Your husband was a good man. Christ is king 👑 bless your family.

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JobViktor

I am really sorry for the loss of your hubby. May he Rest in Peace in Jesus name, Amen

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Omairtde

Sincere condolences for your loss. May he rest in peace.

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john510185

Very sorry to hear this. Deepest condolences.

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Karirudy

Bless you all and may jesus wrap his loving arms around you and give you peace. Im so sorry for your loss. Wife of Karirudy.

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hopeful1956

Please accept my heartfelt condolences. Sending you Love and Light.

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rosenjpj

I am so sorry for your loss. May his memory be a blessing.

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85745

Sorry for your loss. He is at peace with Jesus

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Drandma

God bless you and your family!

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Vman1

So sorry for your loss. No more suffering, rest in eternal peace.

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Peealot

I’m so sorry for your loss.

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swwags

I’m so sorry

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Har036

I pray that you and your family will receive all the support, peace, love and comfort that our Father God provides us through those He sends to minister grace to us in our time of need. This the first time I read your husband”s post and history. He had quite a battle that he handled with hope and trust in the Lord. Now eternal peace . Condolences to you and your family.

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Cateydid

thank you for sharing your sorrowful news. It can’t be easy. I’m so sorry for your loss and pray for your comfort.

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Amadeus71

🙏♥️💪

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DesertDaisy

I'm so sorry for your immense loss.

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Rancantoo

So sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing his beautiful testimony.

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Yank66

My sympathies. How wonderful that you all could be together to support him and each other. Peace to you all.

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Oblivious1

So sorry for your loss.

gsun profile image
gsun

Your family loved him very much to have dropped everything and run to his side with such short notice. Sorry for your loss.

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Sunnysailor

I’m very sorry for your loss.

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BadNews4me

A believer will always find peace at the end. My condolences for your loss.

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Hailwood

Thank you for taking time to share with us. Your husband's strength came from his love of God and his family. Prayers are with you.

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Pharm1125

Hi,

I hope your husband is smiling down at you from heaven! God bless you and you’re family!

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turkeyjoe1

Condolences to you and your family

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Papillon2

condolences

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Carlosbach

Condolences. I'm glad that your family has been able to be together at this difficult time, and that you have your faith to sustain you

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profsailor

so very sorry for your loss. Blessings to you and your family.

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Tinuriel

So glad you have the peace of knowing he is with Jesus. May the Lord give you and your family great comfort as you grieve your loss. Hugs and prayers.

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PELHA

So very sorry to read this. Many condolences.

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Cancer2x

So sorry to read of the loss of your husband, He was blessed to have you as his life partner, and to be surrounded by love at his transition from this life. Please take gentle care of yourself, and joy in the memories you made together.

PAX

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Professorgary

I am so sorry for your loss. It is obvious your husband is a God fearing man. I use the present tense because he still is. I too am a God fearing man with late stage prostate cancer and many times wonder how folks that are non believers get thru times like this. My prayer is that God will make His presence known to you, that He will fill the void left by the passing of your husband and reassure you that your husband is in good hands. May God bless and strengthen as you finish your journey here on earth and give you comfort that you will see your husband when your mission here is complete.

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bigiron

He is in Gods arms now. May beautiful memories sustain you.

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ELOfan

I am sorry for your loss, may your husband rest in peace. A big hug to you for all you have been through together. Faith that your family can grieve and miss him and yet find a new way forward for you to make the most of your life too. So fortunate your son is a nurse.

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OFPF16

I’m very sorry for your loss but happy to hear his faith was strong! From the sound of it, God gained a good and faithful servant. Prayers of peace and comfort for you and your family!!

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Slick714

😥 Sorry for your loss

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Cub49614

🙏🙏🙏🙏

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4tunate1

Condolences to you and your family. It was remarkable that everyone could get home in time to be together.

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Voodoo33993

I'm so sorry for your loss. Condolences.

So sorry for your loss. Wishing you and your Family the best in this difficult time.

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Granica4818

I am so sorry for your loss. He is at peace in the hands of our Lord . God bless you all

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garyjp9

I am very sorry for your loss. I am glad that you and your family could be with him. Even though you know that he has gone to a better place, it nevertheless causes grief. May God bless you and your family, and may God rest his soul.

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