I am posting because I have an 18 year old daughter, mind you she had just turned 18 12-26-2014. Anyways, we found out she has Lupus this past March :(.. By the time we found out she was sooooo ill that she could not dress herself nor go to the bathroom without us picking her up and taking her. since, we have found out that 10% of her kidneys have failed and now she is having memory problems. ( Need to let you know that this child has been on the HONOR ROLL since she came into this world!) She is due to start UCA next month, but with her illness she just feels like giving up..... I NEED HELP PLEASE!!!!