one of my best friends has a 13 year old son who has severe ADHD. the School he goes to will send him home at every given opportunity (e.g. swearing, not doing his work, not concentrating) I just want to know whether anyone else has had this problem and what to do about it, my friend also has a younger son who has severe learning difficulties and traits of Autism, among other things, so she finds it very hard some days and I just want to help her as much as I can. She goes for regular meetings at his school but they just don't seem to listen to her at all. it's so unfair, she has to deal with it at home, she can't just send him away for swearing at her so why should the school? their job is to make sure he is in education.