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Scared incase girlfriend is pregnant?

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Not sure if this is the right place to post this but I’ll give it a go. So basically as follows, recently me and my girlfriend had unprotected sex. Stupid I know ridicule me in the comments if you want. Around two weeks ago me and my girlfriend got bored and she wanted to try unprotected sex to see what it felt like and I agreed. I just had my penis in her for a few seconds and stopped as I was scared about getting her pregnant. I did go all the way in but now I’m really worried. I’ve been reading the internet about pre cum and I did not know it could get you pregnant, I was only in for a few seconds but I don’t know if I had any pre cum. I did not ejaculate 100% sure but it’s just I am 18 and don’t want to have to raise a child this age before I go to university. She was around day 11 of her cycle she says but recently it’s been irregular when we done it. What are my chances of getting her pregnant? I just need some reassurance because I haven’t been able to sleep well over the past few days thinking about it. Thank you :)

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I'm not going to ridicule you for having unprotected sex.

I know how enticing it is to try.

I'm going to give you some back story so bear with me.

The first time I had unprotected sex was with my wife. We had discussed contraception and vasectomy was my suggestion. We were both in our 50's at that point so didn't want any more kids. She tried an implant and it caused side effects so I arranged the appointment for my vasectomy.

Prior to the operation, we were making love one afternoon (still using condoms of course) and I suddenly felt a massive increase in sensation. I looked down after a couple of thrusts and the condom was in tatters.

Boy, did that feel good and dreadful at the same time? We both freaked out and got dressed and went to a strange pharmacy for PlanB. Several awkward questions later we left with the pill and went back to resume where we had been interrupted.

Yes, unprotected sex feels great but I don't think that it's worth the risk.

Back to your situation,

Yes, there is a chance that your gf will get pregnant, however, I believe that the chance is quite small. Yes, precum can contain sperm and it is possible for that sperm to reach the eggs and fertilise it. The odds are stacked against it though, especially as you were only inside her for a very short length of time.

My question is, Why did you wait so long before asking for advice?

Did you not think to visit a pharmacy or a doctor?

Perhaps you didn't realise the dangers.

I think you may have a few more sleepless nights until her next period arrives.

I hope that you have learned your lesson and won't make the same mistakes again.

By the way, if a condom does break on you get to the chemist straight away and get PlanB, the morning after pill is another name for it.

nhs.uk/conditions/contracep...

Best of luck

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joshy18Uk in reply to Biggie_McDick

Much appreciated mate, I did urinate before having sex so hopefully I’ll be safe fingers crossed and yeah I did not know you could get pregnant. I’ll keep that info handy for next time :)

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3simon in reply to joshy18Uk

Oh for heavens sake. Urination before sex does not prevent pregnancy or STI

More prudent will be to get and understand contraception!

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