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Painful Ejaculation in Certain Positions

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Hi all,

I cannot find anything about this anywhere online, I must be the only male on the planet that finds doggy style painful. So what happens is, when im in any position that involves me being behind my partner (female), whether spooning, doggy etc. When I ejaculate, its painful and stings a lot. I know what the issue is, my ejaculate is getting stuck half way up my shaft, I can tell this because if I pull out - it all releases in one go and the pain goes away. This is all related to vaginal sex only by the way.

Now I find positions where im behind my parter much better than missionary and others, plus recently she has become much more into doing these positions as well. So it's sort of a win... but also not

I have zero pain when masturbating and also zero pain when finishing in missionary position, and zero pain when peeing.

Any body else ever had this or know of a way I can twist... turn... flipflop in order to not have my stuff get "stuck"? I'm wondering if it's a height thing but we've tried a couple of things to adjust that but no luck.

Many Thanks!

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Hey - thanks for your reply!

I'm always in the upright position, if being on my knees directly behind is what you are referring to.

I've even tried simulating this position With masturbation to see if it's the angle which is what is the problem. But I don't get the same pain when doing this. It's literally only when I'm inside a vagina. Which is what's making me think it's just the tightness in that position which is the issue.

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Animeshmiri

Yes i also faced the same problem...please give me the solution for this