I have not had the full range of experiences explained in the article, but since reaching puberty when I was 13, I have enjoyed and developed some of them. As soon as I began to masturbate I realised that my bum cheeks and anus, as well as my penis and testicles, were erogenous areas: I placed a mirror so that I could see my anus and cheeks squeezing together.
Between the ages of 11 and 18 I went to an all-boys school. At first, I found showering after physical education and games an embarrassing ordeal. Our games teacher was a bully. He made us queue up naked outside the showers. 'Close up the queue' he would shout. Penises and bottoms touched. Was he demonstrating his authority or seeking sexual gratificaton? After reaching puberty, embarrassment turned into excitement. Several boys said how much they liked my big, round bum 'just like a woman's' and how they would like to get their penises up it. I was flattered and excited by their attentions. There was not much time in the showers, but after school ....
I have retained and developed my liking to show my bum and taken whatever opportunities have arisen - in the changing rooms at swimming pools, on nudist beaches .... it has remained an early stage in masturbation. I have found yoga a wonderfully relaxing yet arousing experience. I feel it has helped me to prepare mentally and physically to get and maintain erections and to achieve more satisfying orgasms (details at dailystrength.org/group/mas....
Do you have any observations on the Healthline article on anal sex or experiences you would like to share?
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I think best described as analingus. Which, as this is a health forum, I must add requires scrupulous hygiene, before and after, and a lot of trust with the recipient. But the opening of the anus is an errogenous zone, even if gently touched.
I’ll have an answer for you once I finally try it, hopefully sooner than later. You are so intriguing with your post and I know many gain much for them. Thanks Barry for this one too.
Thank you for bringing this up, and if I’d been in school with you definitely would have been behind you all the way. Anyway, I do enjoy giving and receiving anal sex. I love to use Boy Butter for lube and really enjoy injecting it with a slender dildo-shaped lube dispenser with the head also lubes to make the entry easier. When I can’t afford the pricier lube I have found organic MCT oil, a very highly refined coconut oil that is extremely slippery and perfect for bareback sex but can also be used with non-latex condoms. Poppers help to open things up when I’m too tight, which pretty much seems to be every time. Oh, one more thing, I find I get fewer cases or urethritis if I urinate asap after topping bareback.
Hi Nick, I left school and went to college. One of my friends was a keen rugby player. He wanted to learn to swim and asked me to go with him to the pool weekly. There the dressing room and showers were communal. He was interested in body building, and although I was not as fit as him, surprisingly, he admired mine. I wouldn't have thought that 5 feet 7 inches, 145lbs and 37-33-39 matches a body builder but he liked it. He would remark how my sturdy thighs compared favourably with those of his rugby friends and in the showers, he showed his appreciation.
I’m almost afraid to ask but what is boy butter? I rather like the idea of coconut oil because neither of us are fans of chemical lubes and have been trying spit saturation in practice which is getting us closer. Thanks so much for these ideas. A shout out to all you to get better, be well.
Sorry for the late reply—guess I should check my messages more often. Boy butter is an all natural lube made with coconut oil and silicone. It’s available online or in sex shops. It comes in a tub like real butter or a squeeze bottle.
had I known when needed we would have tried it and perhaps it would have made a difference but we finally got to a point where we went all the way with full penetration. While he enjoyed it very much it was horrific for me. What I got from it was his seed which was pretty much discarded my next visit to the toilet. He was both gentle and rough and caused me to lose consciousness but he says it was very brief. We have moved on with our friendship intact and taking a different approach to our sex lives with a very nice female included. This is more to our liking for now. Thanks Nick.
I don’t think I got back to you on this question but my recent post led me back although it’s been awhile. My first response to it was great for him and he wanted to continue it but It was a horror for me so I shut it down. He was accepting and respectful of my decision so we were both good with it. We’ve since met a wonderful woman that has spiced up the sex for us both and I’m considering giving it another try but mostly for her and also him. She met him as a straight man and as their friendship showed signs of romance he informed her of our friendship and the sex life we had developed. She came in knowing he was 100 % top and I was his bottom. She’s been great for us both. In our shared bed she’s asked that he fuck me while I eat and play with her pussy. She actually asked him then came to me per his instruction to see if I would accommodate it. This is where we’re at.
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