14 weeks on friday

[Beccl93]

After 2 losses watching this little one change has been amazing however I still massively feel like Im fighting demons in my head

I have a private scan booked at 16+3 too

[Paris1771]

It’s amazing to see the picture! Take care! Wish u all the best with your little miracle!xxxx

[pepagonzal]

Congrats! It must be difficult to manage the thoughts and feelings after what you have experienced. The one thing I have learnt throughout the years is to ask for help whenever you feel your reaching your limit.

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Congratulations lovely news. Sorry for your previous losses I had one before conceiving my daughter. Hope all goes well with your pregnancy xoxo

[Tiffs]

Hi I had two losses before conceiving our rainbow last year in April. I know how your feeling. Not sure I ever really relaxed, ever stopped checking for blood when i went to the toilet, worried because I couldn’t feel anything even if it was too early. I think it was around 25/26 weeks when i was fully showing and I felt her move that something allowed me to enjoy it. I had lots of private scans and do it if it makes you feel better. If I am honest though until the day she arrived I never fully relaxed mainly as it was something we both wanted so much and I just had to get her here! You are doing great and this one has stuck! Try and enjoy it as much you can but also do all you need to keep your mind at rest, even if that’s the odd scan to see your little one xxx

[Beccl93 in reply to Tiffs]

Thank you for your message, i have had 4 privates prior to my nhs. Its not nice to know your not alone as you wouldnt wish feeling like this on anyone xx

[Lizzielizzielizzie]

I think it’s normal to feel this way. I also had two losses before my successful pregnancy and after the 19 week abnormalities scan came back ok, I decided to force myself to enjoy the pregnancy as much as I could and allow myself to look forward to being a mum. I basically pretended to be ok to myself and eventually I sort of was, though in my heart of hearts I still didn’t really believe I was going to have a baby until she arrived. Lots of love x

[Beccl93 in reply to Lizzielizzielizzie]

Thank you for your message xx

[Annalieseonline]

First of all congratulations and the thoughts will last throughout your pregnancy.

I had a stillbirth at 26wks and 5 early miscarriages so I struggled a lot with my thoughts. Even now my rainbow baby is nearly 6 weeks I still find it hard to believe he is here and he is mine.

Try and take each day at a time and enjoy your pregnancy as much as you can and take lots of bump pics.

I wish you all the best and may you hold your rainbow baby at the end of this journey xx

[Beccl93 in reply to Annalieseonline]

That must of been totally heartbreaking

Thank you for your well wishes xxx