So many changes

[Starlight_ftm]

~ having baby in exactly 4 weeks (well due date is);

~other half in America and nervous I will go in labour early and he misses it

~ decided to have our wedding in September

~May move to America for few months with other half while we decide where we want to reside

~ so used to having support and network in UK that I’m getting overwhelmed about so many changes.

* on the plus, support I have now is helpful so I guess living in the moment is the best way right now

[Klc83]

Wow! So much for you to think about right now! Congratulations on setting your wedding date. I would suggest focussing on that right now - if you pregnancy is going well. I focussed too much on my due date and now at 10 days over feel incredibly frustrated and emotional. Does your partner work or live in America? Don't worry about him missing the birth, it is something completely out of your control and you don't want any extra/unnecessary stress. If you have family/friends to support you already someone will be there when you most need it.

Also, moving overseas is a massive thing and I personally wouldn't make any decision on that until I know to what extent I will rely on my support network once the baby is here. If the move is for your partners work then it could be especially difficult/isolating for you at first.

I'm sure you've considered all these things anyway but just really wanted to wish you well. Don't spend time worrying, it is time wasted and doesn't achieve anything anyway. It sounds like you've got a very exciting year ahead. Enjoy it! I hope it all works out well for you. Good luck!