Anyone heard how Roakaya is?
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Positive Wellbeing During Self-Isolation
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Roakaya
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I sent her a message yesterday, not heard anything back yet
I will see if I can get any information. I know she was trying to study for her class for her certification.😀👍🌈
Good evening
I hope you are well
Thank you for being kind enough to enquire
I have been trying to study and the exams are next week and able to cope
Today my Mother rang me ten time’s and my day ruined by her demanding behaviour so close to the exams
I hope you are well
Thank you for asking how I am
Glad to see you on the group this evening.😀👍🌈
in reply to Roukaya
Best of luck with your exams!
Roukaya in reply to
I hope your job interview went well
Hi Roukaya! Great to hear you are still hard at it! Don't let that pocket rocket get in your way, because you ARE going to pass this time 
!
Good luck lioness xx
Roukaya,
I think it is very important this month to assess your priorities. Passing your exams is paramount. Success in this endeavor will transform your life. Your mother will still be there after you have achieved this goal. Your phone can be switched to “Do not disturb” you know.
I am rooting for you because I know you can succeed. Be strong, and consider your own needs.
Best wishes, good luck, Elizabeth.
Very kind words
I hope you are well.
I would like to explain that I have studied throughout lock down and the exams are next week .
I have warned my Mother of her behaviour .
I tried calling the Samaritans yesterday and they explained we are a line for those in despair or suicidal but it would seem when I simply wanted to talk to some one I was refused .
I live on my own and my brain thrown into chaos yesterday and I did not sleep that well .
I have studied , I have done mock papers and I cannot allow my Mother and her demands to get me further upset .
She made it so clear when she had her male friend she knew how to give him preference
Only when she realised she was being used by him did she see what a fool she was .
I have my own responsibilities and I cannot take her demanding behaviour when it suits her
I am very surprised and sorry that Samaritans wouldn't talk to you. My son is a listening volunteer and he is happy to talk to anyone about anything, which I understand is their policy. They are struggling in some areas to get enough volunteers in though. Best of luck with your exams. Please switch your phone off.
Thank you for reply
Stay focused Roukaya. Not long now. Good luck!
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I think people are right, I think you must turn your phone off. Maybe you can call her once a day and explain to her that you are not available the rest of the time. Good luck, I know it's not easy 
xx
I hope you are well .
I expect I did not realise how much this qualification means to me .
My Mother has always been self centred and put herself first
I will try not to let her get me down
If I miss the pass mark I will not visit her for Christmas and I will go after January if I am required to resit .
I will try to go swimming a little in order to distract my mind .
I hope you are well
I will always try to answer if a message is sent to
Me
Hello Roukaya, good luck with your exams. Give yourself the best chance by turning off your phone and getting some sleep! Xx Maggie
Thanks
I have a week until the exam
My Mother’s excess calls have prevented me from sleeping well and as a result I am struggling to concentrate
Always guaranteed when I have a exam this happens
Fortunately the exam is next week and not tomorrow as originally scheduled
Please turn off your phone and get down to studying. I'm sure she doesn't mean to stop you, but you must limit her calls, as they upset you.
You need to concentrate on yourself right now, and don't let the aunties bully you either!
Get your qualification, and check in with us. we have been worried about you.
Cheers, Midori
Wishing you all the best for your exams next week. Stay focused on those. 🍀
Thank you for reply
I realise that my Mother took it out of me test so today I am very tired .
Fortunately the exams are next week but today I am drained
She has a habit of doing this to me just before my exams hence why I missed the pass mark before
I hope tomorrow to feel better
I hope you are ok
Good luck with your exams!
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