I remember being pregnant and when I found out I was having twins everyone kept saying it is a blessing. Now that they are home and my husband back at work itsoon HARD WORK. I don't get no help from my family cause they are not happy with my choices. And having a 2 year old as well to deal with don't make my life any easier. It's hard work family or no family I wouldn't trade them for the world. All u ladies out there who are wondering if u pregnant, trying to get pregnant or are actually pregnant. Kids are hard work but it's the end product that matters. That's my 2 year old.