is it just me or every woman, especially with first child is scared to give birth? I joined a website where they explain in detail the whole process. I heard it from my mother but this time seamed to sound really painful. I used to be quite sensitive and have heavy period pains and I've always been afraid of something going on with my tummy. I wanted to choose cesarean procedure but they don't allow you. If the reason is being scared they send you to therapy. What can they change with the therapy? The pain when you're in labor???