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Winning my unfair dismissal claim against my former employer lead me to campaign against bullying everywhere.

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Recently I visited my local High School where I hadnt been in for nearly 30 years. I met the Deputy Head and we talked about many issues such as bullying, Safeguarding, disability awareness, biodiversity, autism awareness, pupil suspect and mental health. Very positive meeting.

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I know how you feel I was bullied and abused and beaten to nearly death by so call family members 4 were women and never got any justice in those days or now because I came from a poor working class family and there were no laws in place or human rights in 1962 and I lived in a small country village and if I told anyone my so called mother would of kill me I could not tell any one and I was a slave in my own family home and I was so so scared and frightened for 13 years I never had any child hood and was the only boy in this evils family I

It’s was hell day in day out never a day went by when I was so so scared for my life the country village police men never had the skills or experience in those days and my so call mother would lie to any one when they came to the house she told them to mind there own business she was pure evil and all this happened in the U.K. I had no protection for any body not even the U.K. governments or systems but others from other countries do how can this be right but one day we went on holiday and I went to a shop and steal items but had money but this was my way of asking for real help because for 13 years of real hell I had no other way and then I went in to care which was and then was mental and physical harm of serious abuse by management and staff there and got rape very badly and was beaten there as well so male staff had there way with me and rape me so badly and ripping my clothes off and putting my head down a toilet and tide me up and tape up my month and if I don’t do what they wanted I would beaten to death my body was so badly damaged and from my so could mother and 3 other women in my so call family and all this happened in Bristol uk and I never got any justice it was all covered up by governments bodies and systems it’s failing me very badly and then they label you mentally unwell but this was all down to uk governments covering up systems and from that day never got any justice in my own country I was born I now live a very lonely and very bad quality of live it’s done harm by very evil human beings and 4 women done this were is real justice for men who get rape and abused like women were are equality rights who is standing up for men like myself my life was destroyed who can get me justice please start a campaign for men who get rape and abused by women and girls like I did who’s talking about this I am lucky to be alive only because I keep running a way from home I I had to get on with life had no choices or rights or support from anyone in those day and there were no support groups or social systems in place it was hell now I don’t trust anyone I am so so scared I human beings I am seen I mad and label I don’t make myself this way I am lost and empty who would what anyone like me there are very evil women and girls and men in all walk of life but the systems still failing us there’s no justice for men like myself and I don’t have any money to fright my case and there no laws because it happens my years ago others think they had a bad life you can have my experiences and how I had to cope and try and have a life and my so call family had never been there for me my so call two sisters had every support from them I never did

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Galwaybay2 in reply toWebbdave11

That is very sad. I hope people are listening to you now.

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