It helps us all to share here, where we are safe.
Chloe
It helps us all to share here, where we are safe.
Chloe
To be honest the abuse started right from the beginning but I pretended it was nothing but personality differences. Then the orders became intense, ie don’t speak I speak you sit and be a quiet wife. So I found myself thinking am I right feeling angry or is he right.? The violence came and went but got worse and worse. Sexual when he wanted it I obeyed ( easygoing that’s me felt dirty but showered he is happy no violence but then physical and emotional abuse started again. Until the last time if I had not left him I would be dead. Another panic attack last night trigger having to get my Shelly to put down my socks ( she tears them up) just felt like so tired not a normal tired a tired of WAITING FOR The CPS and the financial court. It’s so frustrating. Who did I always turn to God my silent listener who give me comfort and love. Who did I trust nobody. Love Liz 🙏❤️ SHELLY THE SOCK PINCHER
Hi Liz,
Such a horrible situation to have have endured {{{hugs}}}
Coercive control seems to happen so often in relationships, at this moment I was about to look that up and there is a mass of information.
Thankfully you got away but sadly still suffering, it's too long to wait for a decision!
Here's a link to Women's Aid which may have some ideas about this.
Keep in touch Liz, always here for you. Keep the faith <3