I wondered how people deal with situations when the one you care for gets unpleasant . My husband though still able to work on his pc at home , otherwise gets very unpleasant and quite nasty , verbally . He has numerous conditions , I appreciate that , but I won’t tolerate nastiness . He also acts like a naughty child . He has circulation problems , but just wont do what is advised , he keeps crossing his legs stopping the flow , so I put a cushion between his legs , he then crosses his legs over it . This is how he is . The Gp and district nurse have told him to walk around the house and garden for exercise , does he ? No . He will not help himself .
The Gp told him it’s not an option it’s a necessity , but it seems to fall on deaf ears , he is just going to do what he wants to do .
I wondered if there is any advice for me in coping with this .