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I live on my own iv been worried and tryied talking to my family but feel they have pushed me away even further iv explained please do treat me like im dead is this normal im feeling worse mentally and thinking is it worth struggling and not being able to enjoy life iv stopped drinking a year a week ago no body noticed is it because i have cirrhosis im confused

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Good morning Sstteevve,

Can I suggest you speak with your GP or your liver specialist team ?

I have also included some links to some organisations that you can talk to :

Samaritans

samaritans.org

Freephone: 116 123 (24 hours)

Email: jo@samaritans.org

Sane

sane.org.uk

Tel: 0300 304 7000 (6pm–11pm)

Mind

mind.org.uk

Tel: 0300 123 3393 (Mon-Fri, 9am – 6pm, except Bank Holidays).

Email: info@mind.org.uk

Text: 86463

Please reach out, you can also call our nurse led helpline on 0800 652 7330 Mon-Fri 10am-3pm.

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Teanna

Hi, I was diagnosed with the same last year and as you said “your labelled” . It’s very lonely, the family seem to think the worse.... although mine was called Liver failure I still was scarred with the same label as yourself. Since the lockdown I’ve seen no one, so I know how you feel. Even though they found that mine was due to the medication, & the hospital has taken full responsibility my family came to visit me in hospital, but they said to my consultants (she loved a drink when she was a youngster (hey that was 30yrs ago). I felt let down...... So I keep myself busy, (hobbies as I can’t work), and I let my family come to me.....and it worked... they saw I was not taking no more opiates etc, i might have a tipple once or twice every few months......

I do feel for you, be strong, take up something your interested in and see what happens.... Call people that can help (mind), they were great....

Let me know how u get on...

Wishing you all the best

Teanna

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Sstteevve in reply to Teanna

Thank you for your reply iv made a few phone calls with my gp and referred to mental health so i can get help understanding whats happening with me and help trying to cope im expecting a call back Thursday i used to play music and was into camping but broke my hip about 3 years ago so been stuck indoors a long time i will pick the guitar up again eventually my heads just not with it right now onwards and upwards from Thursday i wish you all the best in the future thank you . Steve

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Teanna in reply to Sstteevve

Try writing a song/story of yr ups & downs, then try and add your music (guitar) with it...

I wish you all the best, it’s ok to feel the way u do, but try yr old hobby, your be surprised what u can write and put it to music 🎧🎧😀

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