Would you remarry after the loss of y... - Bereavement Care ...
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We've been together for nearly fifty years, I cannot imagine finding anyone like him and would prefer to live with my memories than settle for second best.
Nothing compares to my hubs
Absolutely not. My husband was a violent abuser, so much so that I can only relate to men at arm's length nowadays, and he passed on 28 years ago!
Yes, I would. The new person would not be replacing my late husband (of over 42 years) but would be loved for his own qualities which would be different in lots of ways I'm sure. However, now aged 71 and a widow for almost two years, I doubt I shall find this happiness.
That's very true SailingBy2 and I imagine if we thought in this way, some may feel differently, thank you.
Chloe
I would hope to be brave enough if new love found me.
A friend was developing a new relationship but it ended when his family found out and could not bear to think of someone taking the place of their mother.
Hi Clarissa2000
Unfortunately, it's not unknown for families to object but one has to be strong if we feel we are making the right decision. I do hope it works out for your friend.
Chloe
I think he is too tied to the family (son lives with him, daughter is nearby). He doesn't want to upset them and risk being left with no new partner and an alienated family. They will lose their father eventually but are ensuring he loses a chance now. When I think of my own situation, I can see there can be an advantage in not having a family!
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