He is prescribed medication to help but only have intercourse 1 month. We been together a year and are totally in love.
We are both 45 I find that he turns me down regularl... - BASHH
We are both 45 I find that he turns me down regularly he has erectile dysfunction I often feel rejected but worry about his feelings. Help
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The biggest problem when this happens is a lack of communication. Many years ago I had the opposite. A girlfriend who was only too keen to jump into bed naked with me wouldn't make love.
The real problem was that when I tried to talk to her about it she wouldn't. Point blank.
In the end I had to give her an ultimatum, "either we talk about this or I'm ending it". She still wouldn't talk so I ended it. Life's too short.
So get him to talk about it, and if he won't, tell him he'll leave you no alternative but to end it. If that still doesn't work and gets him to talk it sounds like it's ended anyway.
I went through a phase where I was quite depressed and although I was head over heels in love with my partner just had absolutely no sexual desire at all. I still fancied him but I seemed incapable of becoming aroused. Maybe he's feeling down about his erectile dysfunction. I think like gj2355 says talking is the key. He may not realise how you feel. Or there may be something else going on you don't know about.
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