Hi, my 16 month old twins were diagnosed with asthma last week after their 7th hospitalisation since January. The twins were going to a childminder a few hours everyday so that I could accomplish some work for the firm my husband and I own. The doctors we have seen have recommended that I remove my twins from the childminder since I truly don't need to send them in order to accomplish the work. The doctors were concerned that the attacks were geting worse after exposure to a few of the other children who are constantly ill.
My husband wants me to end things with our childminder immediately and be selective where I take the twins as he is very concerned about permanent lung damager. I agree on one level but also worry about them being in a bubble per se and not learning to play with other children. Should I just pull them out and keep them home with me? I really want what is best for them. They are my world.