Ranting is letting off steam which is good for you. Just think this horrible time is just a phase. Things will get better. Breathe deeply. Shoulders down.
Well Gwyn, I think there are times when it does us good to have a rant. Sometimes I quite enjoy having one. So rant away, we're on your side by the way.
I know how you feel I’m in a similar place - currently undergoing tests for breast cancer, the Consultant seems convinced I have it; I get the biopsy result on Tuesday but even if that’s clear I will be referred for further biopsy underMRI scan; move house on Wednesday but don’t know when I can move into new house because of legal complexities (I am hoping by the end of November). Thank goodness for good friends willing to put me up. Plus close friend just had very serious and worrying diagnosis confirmed - she relies on me a lot and I feel I am letting her down just at the very time she needs me more than ever. So, after what seemed to be a successful ablation a year last September I am back in AF again. Now I am worried that the AF will interfere with any treatment I might need for the cancer, if it is confirmed. A horrid time to be ‘homeless’ especially as I am moving to a totally different area, so different medical authority and professionals. Well, that’s my rant, sorry! Tricia
Oh my word Tricia how horrid for you. I hope things improve for you and your friend. Can do nothing on a practical basis but send our thoughts and best wishes for a significant improvement in the very near future. Regards Roy
Hi Gwyn We all try to support each other on here...thats why it works so well. Your little Maddie will be the light at the end of a very dark tunnel. I know my little Matilda certainly is. She lights up the way when things get dark for me. Regards and best wishes Roy
I have had breast cancer (diagnosed 3 years ago) and have AF. When I had the op I think they took extra care, but all went well and recovered quickly. I did not have chemo but had radiotherapy which is a bit draining but still here and clear now for nearly 3 years. Good luck with your other problems.
Hi Cassie, Thank you for your encouraging message. It’s amazing how many people are affected. My daughter had breast cancer about 9 years ago, she had a tough time but touch wood is fine now. So, I must stay positive- just an additional anxiety not having a permanent home right now; at least I suppose it stops me dwelling on one thing too much! But my mind is all over the place and I keep forgetting things! It’s good to know though that AF didn’t hinder your treatment. Thanks again, stay well and good luck for the future. Best wishes, Tricia
Good luck Gwyn to you and your husband. Sent with best wishes for a quieter future. I too make the journey to liverpool on a very regular basis a round trip of 150 miles. Not easy in todays road conditions. Good luck. Regards Roy
I feel for you and yes rant away it feels good on occasions to let it all hang out metaphorically at least. We tend to a mind set of " oh bugger, will this set of circumstances trigger my AF" which is stressful in itself. gwyn53 . I am slowly learning to embrace "this too shall pass" and find the fact that tomorrow will be different sometimes better but always different, is a comfort.
I have just survived the events you are describing Tricia. Diagnosis of early breast cancer, lumpectomy, wound problems (long job but now fine) and various other issues+ virus which has caused AF before. Can't see why AF should interfere. Sometimes we have to let doctors make decisions even though we don't like losing control. Waiting for results was ten times worse than the reality. I had several biopsies with no interruption of my warfarin by the way.
Thank you for your encouragement. It’s horrid having to face these things but we are so lucky to have the benefits of modern medicine and techniques. Sounds as if you had a tough time. I wasn’t aware that a virus could cause AF. Thank you again and good luck for the future. Tricia
The virus didn't cause AF but triggered it according to consultant - it could have been dehydration though. I didn't have a rough time really just had to have daily dressings for a while. Didn't need radiotherapy or other further treatment though so very lucky.
Gwyn - I'm so sorry you have so much to deal with, but, somehow we do get through it and ranting is a godsend - doesn't help but it feels good. This is the most supportive and helpful group of people we could hope for.
Aw - feeling weepy as I thought I had a lot to deal with at the moment, but others like yourself put my miseries into perspective.
I hope things go better for you - and ignore the natterchats at work.
Was going to grumble myself but I'm sorry to hear your troubles. I'm trying to stay calm, but not slept well worrying that I lost my phone yesterday while visiting family down other end of the country, only realising when I've got back home. It has all my hospital stuff on and all my contacts for support workers.. I hope your afib settles itself soon. X
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