Hello everyone, I am looking for ladies who have been or are in a similar situation, for some advice. I have an older child (primary school) and Mat leave has not long finished for 2nd child but I decided to take another year off work... yesterday it dawned on me I was 3 days late for my period yet I'd had cramps for a few days which is odd for me as usually it's a day of cramps then BAM.. period! My partner pointed out that I wasn't biting his head off like I normally would have been when approaching my period... so we took a test.... well 4 actually! All positive. Clear blue says 2-3 weeks pregnant. Our recent child is only 11 months and I'm still breastfeeding him! We were completely shocked. We obviously know the ins and outs of sex and babies... but we honestly just weren't expecting this! We are now full of mixed feelings. We want the time to fully appreciate our young baby/toddler, we were planning on moving house, I don't have any support where we currently live... etc etc. On the flip side, we would love another baby. Always knew we wanted more. But not like this. However, it's so hard knowing what to do, because this baby isn't unwanted, it's just all of our circumstances are currently unwanted and wouldn't make for a steady footing. Please help! Thank you in advance. Also - I am aware that lots of people are struggling to conceive so may find our predicament insulting, I apologise and I completely get it. Also, I am usually the 1st to preach about prevention being better than cure... but what with breast feeding and my usual lack of sex life (thanks kids!) I just didn't think this would happen!