Heya youngsters. We're a couple of oldies here. My first husband died in a car accident and I had to take care of my 2 children. Working 2 shifts to cover their education, health insurance and what not. I met the right guy after I saw them off to college. Alas! It is too late to think of raising another family. Or is it? We still want to have the bliss of parenthood. Want to raise a child together. We did try the conventional way, funny story for some other day. Now we've stopped fooling overselves though. I saw this forum and looks like we can get some advice here. Do share your experiences or advice. I'll keep posting on whatever I can come across. See ya!