I find Xmas hugely challenging. I no longer send cards writing is hopeless these days. Shopping for gifts is reduced to the internet. The ' party ' season doesn't suit my sleep pattern and alcohol isn't fun anymore. I can feel reclusive, insular and avoid gatherings.
Sound familiar?
Well then I decided hang on your trashing your own Xmas, time is precious, stop being Scrooge!
So I make a huge effort focus on what I love and embrace what I have. Loving Xmas turns out to be great.
CHH