Ethical and ?? consideration.

[spencoid2]

I have developed an interesting device over the last 7 years or so. I met someone who is interested in marketing it which is not my strong suit. So it might actually be available soon. I am responsible for the development and firmware (that is what i need my brain to finish) It is definitely something that might be of interest to a portion of us limp dickers who still want to give their partner a good time. It is definitely a bit kinky. Is it appropriate to give it a plug on this forum. I don't want to offend anyone but I do think there are people who would like it. I have had the best sex of my life using previous models of this device.

[Kaliber]

Yea …… I dunno ……. Your invention might need a little work,

Just say’in 😂😂😂😂😂

Object of affection

[Kaliber in reply to Kaliber]

Plus, I wouldn’t want to make my teddy ruxpin cry …

Just say’in 😂😂👏😂😂😂

Teddy ruxpin animatronic companion

[spencoid2 in reply to Kaliber]

Don't worry Teddy will love it.

[Kaliber in reply to spencoid2]

Teddy ( cuddles ) is in the hospital ( dry cleaners ), he’ll be back soon as those large spots dry out.

Just say’in

😂😂😂😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️

[spencoid2 in reply to Kaliber]

i wish him a speed recovery. when he is read for some fun, let me know.

[Kaliber in reply to spencoid2]

Will do …

I used to have the large size Furby , but it talked WAY too much ( never mind the shrill singing and bad attitude ) had to trade it for cuddles. Just not my type.

😁😁😁😁

P.s. I “ always “ take cuddles to the “ furries “ conventions in Vegas when I go , in my own panda teddy bear persona.

Just say’in

Darryl will probably kill this thread very shortly yayahahahaya

[Kaliber]

All joking aside .. I think that intimacy is a topic rarely addressed here ( maybe too awkward or depressing) but is on the minds of most all stage 4 men , probably quite a bit. The sacrifice of our genitals for a bit of extended life is a traumatic thing. Men are used to being men and after 5 - 6 -7 decades of being men and suddenly losing that ability is very sad and depressing….. anxiety generating as well.

This and not even addressing the impact on our significant others and the relationship of intimacy between Partners.

This , which is where I think you intend your activities come into play.

It’s still very much possible for intimacy to be part of our lives if we want it to be …… having that intimacy not only reinforces the established relationship bond between couples, it can reinforce an ADT crippled man’s sense of still being a man as well. Yes you can still be manly and have no actual personal full intimacy …..but there is great satisfaction in being able to “ give “. It’s always better to give than receive, isn’t it !!!

Hint: that heavy professional model of the “ back of the hand, Oster massager should be an integral tool in every man’s massage toolbox …. Right there beside the scented oils, heated Chakra rocks , ostrich feather, low melt candles and mink oven mitt. Great massages can and should be “ bi-directional 😉 “ ….

Just My own 2 cents worth , yours may vary considerably. Yayahahahaya yayahahahaya

Just say’in. 😂😂😂😂

[spencoid2 in reply to Kaliber]

Ok with a few more "recommendations" I might post about my toy. It is really sophisticated and the main objective when designing it was to make it a couples toy. I have no interest in sex without intimate communication. This toy allows that. I am really serious about this. I saw the other toys and saw a severe lack of what I consider most important. Most people do not get what the critical difference is but a few do including the guy who is working on marketing it. Currently my hubby has as little interest as I do so I just have the memories of great sex with this toy. Now I just cuddle with my dog for comfort.

[Kaliber in reply to spencoid2]

Hummmmmm. …. ( yayahahahayaya yikes ….) … get in there warrior and “ make “ him cuddle ( make you cuddle too ) …even if he says he isn’t interested ( he is ) … tell him “ it’s for you “ to give him the acceptable face saving social path to you both being close. Put the hammer down on him. Hold him , make him hold you …. tharze still some sparks there somewhere, give ‘em a chance. Even if intimacy is only cuddling on the couch …. time is fleeting / running out … don’t waste it … keep that closeness meter running …. you will never regret it later and at that point it’s only about you and your fond memories. Your hubby - warrior partner will be dramatically uplifted ( no pun ) at a time in his life when it’s most important to him ….. and you as well ( even if he feigns otherwise ). You still have room for your invention in the scope of things …..don’t you ….. hey it’s all good, …..love heals a lot …..

Just say’in ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[spencoid2 in reply to Kaliber]

We sleep separately due to sleep apnea but with CPAP and earplugs it is possible. I will force him to cuddle on the couch watching movies. In the camper we have two queen beds but use one and I survived. Will try cuddling. And he was open to using the toy.

[Kaliber in reply to spencoid2]

That’s the attitude warrior … get in there and get busy . You still “ got it “ ❤️❤️❤️

[spencoid2]

Is anyone ready for a description of my amazing toy and or a link to a web site (old) about it? The site is for an older less sophisticated model but it explains the difference between my machine and others. No porn.

[Kaliber in reply to spencoid2]

Yea, I wondered how long you were gonna drag out the suspense. …. kripes yayahahahaya yayahahahaya

I hope it’s better than that last one made of an erector set ( pun ), Lincoln logs and legos … it had a disturbing wall power cord and what looked like pieces of an old steam iron and a sunbeam mixer …. Scary !!!!

Just say’in

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[cesces]

I would be interested. Please post something about it.

Thank you

[spencoid2 in reply to cesces]

I did post something but it looks like it was deleted? Did the moderator delete it? I am serious about this toy. I have been working on it for 7 years and it is really unique and great fun for couples play unlike other machines. I will post again if I know it will not be deleted.

[JPnSD in reply to spencoid2]

Suggest you do private messages to interested parties on here.

[spencoid2 in reply to JPnSD]

i have not figured out how to PM teach me

[JPnSD in reply to spencoid2]

OK...I did send you a PM...but you talked about messaging and not your idea. LOL

[Big_Mcc]

If its deleted on here can you post it on facebook or similar and then post a link on here which may be acceptable to the moderator?

[spencoid2 in reply to Big_Mcc]

i can't do marketing and hate facebook. it has legitimate uses but most of it is crap. my Niece has a degree in social media marketing but is probably not interested in this product,she is still young as is her husband. will try re posting when the new web site is up. however i also wanted to share with others who want to build a machine themselves.

[Kaliber in reply to spencoid2]

Darryl , the site moderator is always watching and if something disappears, it’s him moderating. Don’t worry about it, I can’t remember how many posts of mine have vanished into the void yayahahahaya. It happens.

😂😂😂😂😁

[Big_Mcc in reply to spencoid2]

[e-mail] Contact me direct if this works

[rocket09]

Give it a rest buddy. You are just an attention seeker.

[spencoid2 in reply to rocket09]

not really i have spent years perfecting a really useful product. it was probably premature to link the old web site that is rather crude. once it is available there will be a much nicer site emphasizing intimacy and such. i built this for myself and shared it with a bunch of other who have built it. the toy will be marketed to sexually disabled vets as is the partner who is designing the "for market" version and i think the cause is noble. i don't need money nor attention. i want to be able to help limp dicked people like myself and injured vets satisfy their partners and salvage their relationship. i fucked up by linking the old site.

[spencoid2 in reply to spencoid2]

to add a little more, i seriously like helping people. i have spent my life sharing utilities with people across the world to help with boring tasks that a computer can do. i charge nothing. if i write or build something useful i love to share it. i am more concerned with the community than fame. i do not want fame. i do like feedback that i have helped people but attention does not excite me. i am known in certain circles as a very nice guy. if the toy is a success i don't care who takes responsibility. also i have enough money for the rest of my life and have very simple needs. good health, a decent husband, a decent home that i can clean and maintain, a great bicycle, a great dog or two, good simple food, a great player piano and not much more.

[JPnSD]

USE PMs !!!!