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Keeping dieting secret!

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CrimsonMamaRestart June 2023
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I have attempted and failed SO many times over the last few years. I even scoff at myself for trying yet another new plan! So its no wonder other people roll their eyes or laugh at me when I say I am attempting to lose weight yet again!I feel sad that I cannot count on the support from family around me. But so excited and happy to have this place here to talk to instead!

I have decided for the first time ever to not reveal to my mum and others that I am "trying again".

My mum in particular has a way of saying negative things ("you dont look any different to me?") Or suddenly "craving" dessert when we dont usually have dessert when she knows I am trying to be good. She also loves telling me how much weight she has lost when I am down and struggling. Yet if I am doing well she is suddenly doom and gloom telling me she has binged and put weight on.

SO... this time is going to be different! I am going to try my hardest to just eat healthier and make better choices but not say anything about it and not expect nice comments.

I can do this!! 💪🏆😜

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ElemisHealthy BMI

keep up the good work..unfortunately people do like to sabotage good progress,you may want to consider being honest with your mum by asking her to support your weight loss journey and to not make negative remarks as you don’t appreciate it. Honesty is the best policy.

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Wine7st 7lbs

Your plan sounds great... Good luck

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