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My last Cyber knife radiation was March 31, 2020 and my husband's Cyber knife treatment ended on October 20, 2020. 69 and 58 years old, together for over 30 years. Everything is functioning well so far except maybe not always as hard as we were when we were younger. We both love our Giddys that we wear on occasion depending on who wants to top. We were thinking of buying each other Loverbeby 9 speed prostate messagers to play together with, to add another fun toy to our already great sex life. Question is, could this cause any damage due to the fact we have, cancer and had radiation? We're certainly would use the lowest speeds to experiment with for a awhile. We are hoping all of you have a wonderful holiday and a healthy New year. Thank you.

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No damage, but wait another month - tissues can tear easily. The guideline is- if it feels bad, stop. You might see blood in urine or semen. That isn't bad - it's just scar tissue breaking off.

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Thanks Tall_Allen. That makes sense especially for my husband who's last radiation was only October 20, although we have both been bottoming and have not seen any signs of scar tissue, blood, etc. so far. Feel very blessed we have not had any side effects so far. Wishing you and everyone a wonderful holiday and healthy New Year.

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