Hello. The issues listed in the title keep appearing in posts and I have been wanting to respond/comment for awhile. These are my experiences and I hope sharing them might raise some thought or in-site that would be helpful.
1 Top Man Sex. Over 30 years ago when I was diagnosed with HIV I was panicked about infecting others - determined NOT to do what had happened to me. So I got creative - as did a lot of other men. Of course the " go to " was condoms but there were also other " toys in the chest " especially dildos of various shapes and sizes - and my fingers and fists - and the bottom boys were lining up. Many years of very rewarding sex without doing penetration.
Also, as we learned more about how it was transmitted - cock sucking was once again " safer " especially with low viral loads. So for me - and others - demanding " suck my cock - boi or pig or bitch " was often the great prelude to them hopping in the sling. And after they got what they wanted or needed they were usually very willing to show their gratitude by finishing me off.
Because of the nature of what we were doing there was always the issue of " messiness " lube - cum - whatever. I have had a play room/area for many years but sometimes the activity needed to move to the bedroom so I put together a set of fuck sheets and before I put them on the bed I put on a plastic or vinyl mattress cover. The we could be as messy as we wanted with no disasters with ass juice - or lube - or cum or urine. which brings me to that subject.
Urine. As far as I know- urine is sterile. As far as I am concerned, it is hot fluid coming out of a man's cock. We worship cum - but have a horror of " PEE ". Really men - I don't get the revulsion. Spent years pissing on or in guys. There are lots of men out there who get it - and want it - or at least are not scared or repulsed but it. A buddy ( with pc ) told me about his climacturia and how embarrassed he was by it. He has been with his partner for 14 years - and they have been married for a while now. They are also " leather men " sometimes. I asked him if he had discussed this with his partner/husband - as in what does he think about the climacturia or if his partner had acted repulsed at the event. He told me that no they did not discuss it - nor did the partner react in a negative manner when it did happen. I do not get that there was not a discussion - I don't get the embarrassment.
I will add that I do not piss IN men since I am on Lupron because I understand that traces of the drug are in the urine - and unless you eed ADT to stay alive - no one needs that in their life.
Other Urine events: After I started on the Lupron ( ADT ) of course my hard-on and cum disappeared. However, I found 2 things happening.
1 A man with a hot talented mouth - could really do a job on my limp dick. When It is soft they can get a lot more deep in their throat. Orgasms ( dry ) were mind blowing. It is my theory that all the nerve ending are still there - just a lot closer together because of no erection.
2 The other thing I found is that after a period of stimulation - even with no orgasm - that if I take a healthy piss - it feels like I am having an orgasm as the liquid passes through - it's like cumming a lot - more than I ever had - even when I was young and could shoot it over my head.
so those are my experiences thoughts. Would be glad to hear any reactions/responses
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