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my mom died 13.02.2024 :( i am so empty… she was my best friend my all now i am alone :(

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0462County

I am sorry to hear about your mum. Sending you all my love and hugs. Xx

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SuffolkJen

I am so sorry to hear this very sad news. 😢 You did everything you could to help your lovely mum she must’ve been very proud of you. I too lost my lovely mum to this awful disease. Sending you a hug & strength that you will need in the coming days

Take care xx Jen

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Kazzh

I am so very sorry to hear this 😔. It is so very hard to lose a parent especially as you are an only child. The pain must be hard to bear. Being by her side on this awful journey would most definitely have reassured her, you clearly loved her so much. It is time to be kind to yourself. Reach out to those who love you as you need all the love & support at this time. It will get easier, much love xx

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Laz66

I am sad to read this. You have been a loyal and caring daughter and advocate on here for her for such a long time. Much love xx

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bananayo

I’m so sorry to hear your very sad news on the loss of your mum, sending hugs to you x

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Lyndy

I am so sorry Inga.. sending love ❤️

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Lizz49

I’m really so sorry to read this, it was clear how much you loved your mum and have been such a loving daughter. Take some comfort in that she’s at peace now, I lost my own mum 3 years ago and know how hard it is…I’m sending you lots of hugs and love ❤️

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Lizzieanne

I am so sorry and send my love to you. You were so supportive and loved your mum she must have been so comforted having you there beside her. God bless x

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Lirene

Bless you. The Lord will look after her, and you Lx

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Eriksendi

I am so sorry to read the sad news about your mum. ❤️

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Tulips66

My sincere condolences to you on the passing of your mom. You will have no regrets because you were a caring daughter who were always on here looking for information & ways to help her through this dreadful illness. I hope the lovely memories you made with your mam will get you through the tough days ahead without her. Sending a virtual hug your way X

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Mariej2021

I am so sorry to hear this sad news. You were so supportive of your Mum and your love for her shone through your posts on this Forum. Thinking of you x

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Pianoplayer731021

So sorry to read about your mother’s passing. I just lost my husband on the 17th from pancreatic cancer that he fought for over two years. Between my oc and him developing cancer, it has been rough. He was my best friend for 55 years and I surely do miss him. Sending a hug, Donna xx 🙏

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Kwiskwos

Lost my mother July last year. Seems like yesterday. God knows how much i lost then. I cannot express it in words. Taking care of her during her last few days was so painful and yet so fulfilling at the same time. I feel your pain. It will be very painful, that's for sure. I can only offer my sincerest prayer for you. 💙

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Skyeplus

I am so very sorry to read your news and am sending all my love and prayers for you xxx

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Jud15

I am so very sorry, you were the best a daughter could be, doing everything you could to help your mother. Sending love ❤️

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Gonewith

It hurts a lot no matter when and how you lose your mum. Im living every day with all my mum good memories. Sending you lots of love xx

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Lochawe

so very sorry to hear that. As others have said you have been a lovely daughter who did the very best you could for your mum through this and she knew this. She is no longer in pain now but now you have the pain of having lost her.. so sorry ❤️

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Fluffyjumper

I am so sorry to hear this and am sending you love and hugs. You always did your best for your Mom, fighting to find the best treatment options for her. Your Mom knew how much she was loved and is no longer in pain. I hope you can remember your Mom as she was before she became ill. You must have so many good memories.

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Morini

So sad to hear your update about your Mum and your deep sense of loneliness and loss. Do take very good care of yourself. Sending love and hugs xx

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Jannibags

So sorry!💙

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Lolathestaffie

I am so sorry. I also lost my mum on 3rd February to this cruel disease. You did so much for her she will always be with you xxx

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Inguc_is in reply to Lolathestaffie

I am very sorry:( it is so hard!:(

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Lolathestaffie

I know 🥺. Reach out to your friends and family for support. Maybe whe. You are ready you could try some bereavement counselling

Take care of yourself is priority for you and what your mum would want x

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Inguc_is in reply to Lolathestaffie

I start to go to psyhotherapist… as i dont know where to search for help and even dont know how to live without her… she has cancer since 2017 recurrance was 2021 and from that time we live togheter day by day:( and now.. nothing only all her things around and she was not planing to die..

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Lolathestaffie in reply to Inguc_is

Support and counselling will support you. Right now take one day at a time x

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Realistic

God bless you its so hard losing someone you love dearly. But in time you will remember your good times. So sad to hear your sad news. Love & hugsSheilaFxxx

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Gakaxy57

I'm so sorry to hear of your lossSending you hugs and ❤️

Take care

Lynne x

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Trickysite

The greatest wish a mother has for a daughter is that she should be happy. You were a wonderful, caring daughter. Treasure your mother's memory in your heart but do your very best to fulfil her wish that you live your life happily. Emma x

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Lilyada

So very sorry, you have been an amazing daughter and couldn’t have done more. Your Mum must have had great comfort from you. She is with you always in your heart. Do look after yourself and take each day at a time.

Sending love and hugs…Angela xx

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BlueHue22

So sorry to hear this 💙 you were so supportive of your Mum and a great advocate in her time of need, you did everything you could and she would have really appreciated it. Sending love and heartfelt wishes that things will get a little easier for you over time but for now just one day at a time is enough, take care xx

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Clair266

Seashells remind us that every passing life leaves something beautiful behind.

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delia2

I am so sorry for your loss. I know you were devoted to helping her get them best care possible and in time that will be a comfort to you. She must have felt your love so strongly.

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Django123

I'm so sorry to hear this sad news. You were a good and caring daughter, and I'm sure you were a great comfort to your mother. Blessings, Lani

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FDMD

I am so sorry to hear that. I too lost my 4 year old son to cancer in 2019. I hope you have some family support because you don't need to feel alone. Please reach out if you need a friend

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Inguc_is in reply to FDMD

I am so sorry, i have only granny, who lost her doughter (‘my mom) and she is very sad also

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Leniko

I completely understand and empathize. When I lost my mom in 2016 I felt like my heart had been ripped out of my chest. I cried for a very long time. But as the days pass, the heartache gets just a little less, and there will come a time that you can look back fondly on all the wonderful memories you share together. She still lives on in your heart and mind, and, I believe you will see her again. My deepest condolences on this tremendous loss.

if it gets too difficult to bear, maybe you should look into a grief group or speaking to a professional. That can also help very much. You’re not alone.

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Inguc_is in reply to Leniko

I start to go to psyhotherapist… will see.. i dont know how to close this empty place and how to live without her forever.. how to not call everyday :( how to not talk every evening… and never meet again how?

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Leniko in reply to Inguc_is

It’s a terrible, terrible loss. I don’t know what your beliefs are, but you can still talk to her in your mind, or aloud, or through prayer. When I went through this anti-depressants helped me

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Luci22

Reading this breaks my heart. I’m so sorry for your loss. I can feel how much love you both had. Be gentle & kind to yourself and take it day by day. I fear the same pain and struggle with my mom . We will never know each other’s pain but I can only imagine. I wish you well, big hug to you. 💜

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AuntyOrange

I feel so sad for you and you will never fully recover from it but you mum would not have wanted you to die with her. Spend some time with your granny talking about your mum's life. Keep her alive in your heart & mind. You still have so much love & caring to give to others & let someone look after you for a while too. Sending big hugs. 💜

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Newbery3

So sorry for your loss 💔 you did your best by her and she's at peace now x

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Yorkiepudd

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Lizchips

I'm sorry 💜

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FlowerRose

All my love from Los Angeles 😔

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Floss74

So sorry to read this - your heart will be broken; I've followed how closely you fought for your Mum. I was equally as close to mine and was devastated when she went. But I promise you that you can and will be OK eventually and to be happy would honour your Mum. Mine would be furious if I wasn't!! She'll always be with you, look out for Robins if you have them in your country and I dream of my mum often; it's actually a lovely comfort. I also had her ashes set into some memorial earrings and I like to think she's still in my ear advising me!! In a bracelet I also have her set with my Nana so that they are both by my side. Find something that gives you comfort and remember to look after yourself xx

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Pitchperfec

I’m so sorry 💙

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Motiva

I can only imagine your pain of being without your beloved Mum. She will have known how much she was loved by you. Sending a virtual hug and kind thoughts as you navigate this difficult journey F x

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PPSCENE

hello. I’m so sorry. You are a wonderful daughter. It’s so nice and comforting to see a beautiful mother daughter relationship x. Be brave - that is what mum would have wanted xx

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Saintgermain

I am so sorry but totally understand your grief as I lost my Mom a few years ago and she was my BFF never had Children also feel alone we're blessed to have had wonderful Mom's but the loss is the hardest journey I ever experienced praying for you.

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Inguc_is in reply to Saintgermain

And how are u now?

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candyapplegrey

So sorry to hear this. Do you have any support groups near you? Lots of love xx

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Inguc_is in reply to candyapplegrey

Didnt look up yet :(

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Saintgermain

Not a day goes by that I don't miss her sometimes I hug her picture it gets a bit easier, but a part of your heart is never the same everyone's grief timeline is different I think I cried buckets of tears was pretty alone myself its so hard but I knew I had to go thru the center of the grief I didn't seek counseling leaned very heavily on God but counseling would of probably helped me. I found even well meaning Friends that never had that wonderful closeness with their Mom didn't really understand. We were blessed!

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Inguc_is in reply to Saintgermain

Yes true, some dont understand…how it is .. but for me it is very hard, i have granny, my moms mother 88 old. She is not easy person but at least we both are not alone.. but sometimes i dont feel that mom will not come… it is like she is in hospital and will be back :( and each day it became more worse

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Saintgermain

I totally get it used to forget and dial my mom's number it was a bit surreal I'm glad you have your Granny as you said not an easy person but glad you're not entirely alone. It's such a hard journey.

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