Just checking in

[CallmeMum]

Hi lovelies,

Just checking in with you all to see how you all are?

Lots of love

Xxxx

[Mptelesca]

Hello my friend! I am well. How are you doing?

[CallmeMum in reply to Mptelesca]

Hi my lovely,

I'm okay getting used to the new routine it's a bit weird but not too bad.

Xxx

[Mptelesca in reply to CallmeMum]

Of course. You were so use to being focused and in a routine with your Special person. Now, every day will move you closer to your new "normal". So good to hear from you.

XOX

Marisa

[Manchesterlady]

Hi . Doing ok at the moment 🤞🤞🤞🤞thank you .

How are you ? Xx

[CallmeMum in reply to Manchesterlady]

Hi lovely,

I'm okay, just the new routine. Xxx

[Katmal-UK]

That's nice of you. How are YOU doing? The days and weeks after a loss are a strange time, especially the 'firsts', Christmas birthdays etc. xx Hope you are looking after yourself xx

[CallmeMum in reply to Katmal-UK]

Hi lovely,

I'm okay not particularly looking forward to Christmas at the moment as it'll be strange, it would have been Cindy's birthday on the 22nd so it's gonna be a hard day in general xxx

[Mommoo65]

So sweet of you to check on us! All is well on my side of the pond. Got hit by Hurricane Dorian and am getting my exercise cleaning up the tree debris. I hope you are all right and moving forward ok from your loss. Hugs, Jill

[CallmeMum in reply to Mommoo65]

Hi lovely,

Hope everyone was safe in the hurricane? Pleased you're doing well. Xxx

[Mommoo65 in reply to CallmeMum]

The family is all fine and busy holding bonfires of tree debris for friends who cleaned their yards to enjoy. They provide hot dogs and marshmallows! One thing about a disaster: people really pull together and help each other in any way they can. It's heartwarming. I know this transition from caring non-stop to having lots of empty time on your hands is hard and strange so I hope you are doing some special things for yourself. I was my Mom's care and was a bit lost after she passed, so I started taking some art classes to ease back into a normal world. it helped and I made new friends after being isolated so long. Take care!! Big hugs! Jill

[Neona]

Hope you are doing ok and so nice to talk to you. I am in UCLH hospital- I went for my safety visit on the clinical trial and ended up being admitted with ridiculously low electrolytes. So here I am 300 miles from home in a lovely en suite side room, lovely food and incredible views over London.

[Avocapearl in reply to Neona]

UCLH is a wonderful hospital. I am there for chemo next week. All the best x

[Neona in reply to Avocapearl]

Hope it goes well- not sure if here next week until see dr

[CallmeMum in reply to Neona]

I'm okay, just getting used to the new normal xxx

[Avocapearl]

Doing ok thanks. Last session of chemo next Tuesday and then the all revealing scan soon after. Have fingers toes eyes crossed

[CallmeMum in reply to Avocapearl]

Hi lovely,

That's fantastic hope everything is well xxx

[Petrolhead]

👍👋 all ok here

Best wishes

Fay 😁

[CallmeMum in reply to Petrolhead]

Hi lovely,

That's brilliant.

Xxx

[claireRoberts76]

Lovely for you to ask... my mum is in remission and gone on holidays! 💗 take carexxzx

[CallmeMum in reply to claireRoberts76]

Fantastic 💖 xxx

[LittleSan]

I'm picking up great from chemo and doing OK on Cediranib 👍🏻.

Big milestones like birthdays and Christmas are especially hard in the first year aren't they? 💐😘

[CallmeMum in reply to LittleSan]

I think it will be hard, especially for my husband and children xxx

[ZenaJ]

All well here thanks. How are you?

I don't post much now as haven't got anything to say but like to know how everyone is doing.

xx

[CallmeMum in reply to ZenaJ]

Not too bad thanks went back to work today and it was good to get some routine xxx

[Cropcrop]

Hello lovely lady,

it’s so nice to hear from you. How are you doing? You now have a new ‘normal’ and I hope you’re adjusting although I’m sure it will take lots of time.

We’re all still here for you, as you know, keep in touch lovely.

Big hugs and love ❤️Xx Jane

[CallmeMum in reply to Cropcrop]

Hi lovely,

I went back to work today and it was nice to be back to some type of normality, loads of people asking why I haven't been about for 7 weeks then doing all the explaining, bit of a pain but was good to talk to people who are different than my family xxx

[Cropcrop in reply to CallmeMum]

I know just what you mean, I went back to work after my treatment so I could tick another ‘normal’ off my list and it’s good to be able to see more faces and chat about seemingly insignificant stuff and especially so if your work colleagues are friendly.

Take care lovely ❤️Xx Jane

[CallmeMum in reply to Cropcrop]

I have a select group of people I talk to other than that I like to keep my stuff private, but it's nice just to talk about normal things that isn't cancer related xxx

[BellmoreBelle]

Have been thinking about you, hope you're doing okay. x

[CallmeMum in reply to BellmoreBelle]

I'm doing okay just getting used to the new normal, the hardest thing is not speaking with her all the time xxx

[Hidden]

Glad you are doing okay, it has to be hard for you and strange but be kind to yourself, your special person would have wanted that

[CallmeMum in reply to Hidden]

It's hard and strange but I'm sure we'll get used to it over time xxx

[Shellygirl]

Hi lovely to hear from you 😊 hope you are doing ok too 😍

[CallmeMum in reply to Shellygirl]

Hi lovely,

I'm doing okay thanks, back at work so some type of normality which is nice xxx

[Shellygirl in reply to CallmeMum]

It’s good to get back to normality and it’s here where we all totally understand what it takes to be normal 😊 remember to look after yourself 😍

[CallmeMum in reply to Shellygirl]

I will xx