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How strong is strong enough?

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Cause I'm sick of it! I'm supposed to be the strong one. The oldest. The only daughter. The one to fix it all! Ok, I get it. It's my lot in life.

But I didn't ask to be sick, it doesn't make me stronger. I didn't ask for RMS. I didn't ask to get sicker as the years go by. I doesn't make me stronger.

I'm so sick of having to go to the ER and hospital. I don't want to play this game anymore, seriously 😳. How strong is strong enough?

Yes, this is my lil pity party, I just need one 😭

Missed you all!πŸ€—πŸ’•πŸŒ 

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erash

πŸ’ŒπŸŒˆ πŸ™

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Amore55

Jes, I’m so glad to hear from you!! Have been really worried. You can have have a pity party anytime you want! If anyone deserves to, it is you. Did they figure out what was going on? PM if you want. I really am happy that you are back! πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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Morllyn

I will keep you in my thoughts and heart.❀️❀️❀️❀️🦈

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So happy that you are better, and back on the forum, Jesmcd2 ! :-D

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Humbrd

It feels good to vent. I get it. Hope your feeling better. 🌹

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twooldcrows

there isn't anything about having a pity party and i believe it makes us feel so much better afterwards ....and if you have always been the one for the large load of the care person because you are the oldest i feel that is why we do get sick for we always had the big load on us....i am not the oldest but have had a load for most of my life and i feel that load has been part of our problems in dealing with MS for we helped others ...i don't know but sure makes me wonder ...you can have a pity party anytime you like for it does help ...you are very important to all of us and you can make us all feel so good ...so it is your turn....love and laughter is great and you do that for us so much....loads of love and happiness...

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BlanketTime1

just want to send you some πŸ€—.

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goatgal

I am so glad that you are back with your spunk, jokes and virtual energy! I missed you.

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cindyrn68

You vent to your heart's content. If not here, where?

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Sandydemop

hey Jesmcd2 here for you. vent all you want. don't you feel better afterwards?

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MsBoo

Jesmcd2.. vent if you can't vent here then what are we all here for..???? venting is good.. whether it is by phone, or by private chat or group chat.. venting is good for the soul... heart and blood pressure! Even for your personal sanity... we don't think less of you for venting.. Love and prayers go out to you dear..

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Cutefreckles72

Continue to be strong. It gets hard. I was an only daughter too. Don't let MS get you down. Trust in God and motivate yourself every day. Hang in there. You can do it. πŸ™πŸΎπŸ‘

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wolfmom21fl

i too am an only daughter... When i lo9st 2 brothers I was told I had to be Strong.. When I was Dx'd I was told to be strong.. When I lost my son I was told to be strong.. I am tired.. I dont want to play anymore either.. I am tired of being strong.. Vent all you want or need to. We really do not mind at all

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