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Hi Everyone,

Things are not at all good, my eldest baby was taken away from me yesterday. Well that's when we found her. She would have been 5 in April. Can you imagine that she didn't even see her birthday. She was such a loving cat. My first baby ever, she made me a cat momma and now she's gone. She recently had 3 children and she's no longer here to take care of them but I will. She got knocked down by a car in the road guys, the road that she knows. She looked terrible and she left in pain too and she was alone. She usually goes and comes. I always thought she'd return. An to think the person who hit her just left her there. They killed my child. My dad is taking it pretty badly too guys he loves her dearly as do I. It's the same scenario that happened with Gingervitis all over again with the pain. At least I held her in my arms one last time but that isn't okay at all. I could have treated her better guys. I feel as if I never treated her well enough. I could have done more for her, all she wanted was care and I couldn't do that for her. She was my first love then she blessed me with others to love. I don't understand why this is happening. In Loving Memory Of Hadassah ❤💙😞

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kenster1

so sorry to hear that that`s awful god bless your furry friend.

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Charmerbluegirl in reply to kenster1

Thanks kenster1 , hope all is well on your end ..... Stay Blessed

Sorry for your loss X

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Charmerbluegirl

Thanks so much

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Songa

I’m so sorry for your loss. There is nothing worse than losing a beloved family member, our pets are such an important part of our lives. Nearly a year ago I lost my beautiful Panda dog, my constant companion for13 years, after a short illness. I held him as he left me. I was absolutely astonished by the depth of my grief. Several months later, without looking, another beautiful boy found me (Songa in my profile pic). He’s not a replacement but just another little soul that needed me as much as I needed him. Together we are healing. My point is that there will always be others that need us. It’s an unfortunate part of loving animals that their lifespan is so much shorter than ours, however while we may not have them for all of our lives, they have US for all of theirs. Security and love is the ultimate life we can give them. I’m sure your darling knew that you loved her. I’m also sure you have a whole lot more love to give. Blessings and peace to you xx

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Charmerbluegirl in reply to Songa

Thanks so much I loved them both but sadly I'm missing them so much

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