A Quick Question

[Dragon3695]

Why is it so hard for someone to love you no matter what changes in your life you are struggling with personally? I am not talking addictions or problems like that because that is a whole other topic. I am talking about changes like losing weight, exercising more, being more social, eating healthier, and more. You all get the picture. All I want to know is why you think it is a problem for so many to basically love unconditionally

[Autisticframework]

Caring for self can be a major struggle and most people depend on other people for things and you have conditional love. Unconditional you may find if you join charity or religious causes sometimes. Very rare and beautiful person to find. It may take you time but never give up because you deserve it. A few interests and you can meet the exact person you were dreaming of and is matter of looking in the right places, I think!

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It can be difficult to find a partner when in pain, depressed, anciety etcWe can dwell on our problems and many people find it difficult to relate to you because of mixed thoughts and a fear of mental health and treatment.

I have been ill with Chronic Pain, Reactive Depression and a Chronic Short Term Memory Disorder. It is a great deal to deal with and that transmits to others around you. So we need to be able to control our fear and negative worries especially with a new partner.

I do not say you need to hide your problems just positive and explain needs and explanations, do not dwell on your problems, I am married and sometimes it can be hard because they have needs of you and in my case that can be difficult

Do not make yourself a Myrtre

BOB

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I hope you meet lots of people and you find that someone special!!! Give people a chance!!!