ED

[MrJMan]

ED help!! I’m 38 and blighted by ED. On no meds, testosterone levels normal. I feel like a complete loser, a failure…. I’m really struggling

[S2BC]

Sorry to hear. What about your stress-level, pre-diabetes and obesity? Have you already talk with a healthcare professional?

[MrJMan in reply to S2BC]

Hey yeh, spoke with my GP, it’s stress related I’m sure. I panic that it won’t, and of course adrenaline kills erections…. The more it happens the more I stress 😫 I can’t live like this I’ve sobbed to sleep more than once

[S2BC in reply to MrJMan]

Think what you can do about your stress level. Is it work related?

[MrJMan in reply to S2BC]

Work and ED if I’m honest the ED is eating me

[Brazilian33]

After 2 years seeing around 20 doctors and hearing that it was all in my head since my testosterone and glucose levels were ok, I finally found that I have a condition called lumbar spinal stenosis that might be causing my erectile dysfunction.

So keep looking for answers if you are not sure about it. If it is really just a stress related ED, you might try talking to a psychiatrist and get some anti-anxiety drugs.

[Hidden]

You’re circumcisied? It this age it can further damage your pleasure leading to lack of sensations leading to ED, I’m 24 and I can’t get an erection by psychical stimulation only by mental fantasies

[MrJMan in reply to Hidden]

No not circumcised…. It’s in my head I know 😫

[Hidden in reply to MrJMan]

Perfection perfectionism! Listen, this is probably because you’re not confident with yourself and you probably have some kind of issue related to depression, I had this only when I felt depressed and low motivated, psychically you’re healthy as horse, I’m not sure about this condition but try to focus on the things above, you didn’t had this before right?

[Hidden]

Hey bud, your not alone in this, I had my first encounter at 39 all due to stress, of course with this you become further stressed and it all gets on top of you, at 44 even now I have the odd occasion too, I fortunately could get an erection for masturbation which then lead me & the doctor to understand was all physiological for me, Take a time out mate, relax, Take you & the Mrs away for a weekend and see how you go for relaxation away from the norm, Sounds as if your talking with the doc or sexual health clinic about this which is a great place to start. Keep us updated and well done on reaching out.

[MrJMan in reply to Hidden]

Thank you so much for sharing. I have a back story but don’t we all…. Just find it sooo hard to deal with. My wife is amazing but doesn’t understand why I feel so emasculated

[Hidden in reply to MrJMan]

110% for someone to understand if never experienced isn’t it mate

[Hidden]

I had to write… you’re not a failure or a loser, stress manifests in terrible ways. You can still pleasure your partner and I’m sure when you’ve de stressed a little all will go back to normal. You are definitely not a loser . Sending love 😃

[MrJMan in reply to Hidden]

Thanks man, yesterday I felt so hopeless I know that’s dramatic in a world we live in but it’s my bad 😫

[Jayflight116]

Just curious, do you watch alot of porn?

[MrJMan]

No never have

[UncutBoy in reply to MrJMan]

Really???

[MrJMan in reply to UncutBoy]

Only really lol

[Jayflight116]

Wow never? Well good for you... Can really fuck you up and make you impotent

[MrJMan]

To be fair only like once or twice in my lifetime