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Hi, so I was circumcised on April 8th. since then I have had sex a handful of times, I can last for ages until I just get bored or tired and then the only way for me to orgasm is to finish myself off by masturbating. I don’t feel much from sex or from blowjobs at all. Any tips?

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__rackz_ profile image
__rackz_

Me too was the same. I can orgasm but just not really I don't really feel it as much

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Circedandlovingit in reply to__rackz_

Be patient and give it some time. It can take six months to a year to adjust to being circumcised. A lot of it takes place in the brain. Pay no attention to anyone suggesting foreskin restoration, especially after only seven weeks.

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__rackz_

I'm 7 weeks

Clay237 profile image
Clay237

Wow you have a good potential career in the adult movie field haha.

Seriously though, that doesn't sound like fun. May I suggest to train your brain not to respond to your hand and only sex? Try not masterbating at all for a while. Weeks. And the only contact you have would be with a woman and see if your brain adjusts to that.

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Eric54785 in reply toClay237

Yeah I’m currently trying that, on day 5 trying to stick through it haha

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jimfromcalif

You can gain back most of the lost sensitivity through foreskin restoration. foreskinrestore.com

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Circedandlovingit in reply tojimfromcalif

If the restoration causes any problems, he'll have to get circumcised again. I've read about that happening, where men didn't like the way the restored foreskin felt, went for second circumcision, and preferred the results of a circumcised penis. Something to think about.

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jimfromcalif in reply toCircedandlovingit

You have a serious fetish which has no role to play in giving advice.

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Circedandlovingit in reply tojimfromcalif

It's you with the foreskin fetish, and a few others here too with your hatred of circumcision.

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misterhyde in reply tojimfromcalif

You're accusing him of having a fetish? You're just trying to discourage me and other guys here from getting circumcised, and it's not working. Guys like him are offering a lot of advice and support to guys like me considering getting circumcised. You just want to scare us away from having it done.

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jimfromcalif in reply tomisterhyde

You are perfectly free to mutilate your own bodies, but it is unethical to encourage others to follow your actions when non-invasive and safe methods are available.

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misterhyde in reply tojimfromcalif

To you it's "mutilation," but not to most guys circumcised as adults. Many guys prefer circumcision to the "non-invasive methods" which incidentally don't work much of the time. They didn't for me, and it's also for cosmetic reasons I'm soon getting circumcised. You just show how biased against circumcision you really are with some of your remarks.

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Eric54785

Yes, i had severe phimosis so I would have to wear a condom and wouldn’t feel much during sex at all and couldn’t orgasm either.

I was the same way after my circumcision, but everything gradually improved. Just be patient and you will see just how awesome orgasms and sex will be.

Pay no attention to any of the fanatical, anti-circumcision trolls here, trying to make you feel bad and suggesting such silliness as foreskin restoration. You made the right decision.

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misterhyde in reply toCircedandlovingit

Do the trolls ever go away? What is wrong with them?

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Circedandlovingit in reply tomisterhyde

Some of them are mentally ill, others have nothing better to do with their time.

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At1012 in reply toCircedandlovingit

To be fair, I think some circumcisions are better than others. I know that your circumcision is a very good one. But others remove to much of the erogenous tissue.

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Circedandlovingit in reply toAt1012

That is why I was very careful with mine in choosing the right doctor, and the style I wanted. Keeping as much inner foreskin as possible, was very important to me.

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At1012 in reply toCircedandlovingit

Very good point :)

Also peter has a very nice one as well.

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jaglad in reply tomisterhyde

Have you considered that their are trolls on both sides ?

This site is for advice and help from both sides.

Unfortunately some do try and take control.

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At1012 in reply tojaglad

I agree. I think it’s important to have an unbiased viewpoint on this topic.

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misterhyde in reply tojaglad

Yes, but I always see the bias on the anti-circumcision side. I never see anyone saying that everyone on the planet needs to circumcised, but I have seen the anti-circumcision side saying that almost every circumcision is a mistake. When someone suggests that a circumcision might be needed, they usually add that the person should discuss it with their doctor.

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Circedandlovingit in reply tojaglad

I've always opposed the extremists on both sides. I see nothing wrong with suggesting that someone consider getting circumcised, and that they should discuss it with their doctor.

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misterhyde

I'll be getting circumcised soon. Why don't you help us to prepare for our circumcisions instead of always saying how bad it will be?

in reply tomisterhyde

Congrats bro, yeah good slap

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misterhyde in reply to

Thanks! He needed that!

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jaglad in reply tomisterhyde

There is a lot of good advice on here unfortunately extremists on both sides try to push there agenda.

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Circedandlovingit in reply tomisterhyde

He's on some sort of mission to save foreskins. There are a lot of great here to give you support!

Have u tried anal? Just checking. If u have and the same results then u have an issue, bro.

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Eric54785 in reply to

Nah man never will😂

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jaglad

To be honest I do enjoy Anal but on the rare occasion my wife and I indulge I rarely cum. But I do enjoy the feeling.

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