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My miracle has come to an end 🙁

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As quickly as I wrote BFP it’s been taken away from me. My levels were down today meaning it’s stopped growing. I know it wasn’t long but I feel such a loss. I don’t know what to do now. Do I try again or go with a donor egg. I thought I couldn’t get pregnant as we have been trying for so long. The joy of being pregnant and now back to square one. IVF is so tough. 😞

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Clover5

I'm really sorry to hear this hun ❤️ I know how awful you feel no matter how early on the loss is, as you already start playing the rest of your pregnancy and life with a baby out in your head, so when it's snatched away it's so cruel. I hope you've got lots of support around you, sending love 😘xX

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Jrss1 in reply toClover5

Thank you so much Clover5 - you totally understand what I am feeling. I had everything planned and was even wondering who it would look like. I’m just so sad… thank you for your kind words. Hopefully one day, I’ll be able to put up another BFP and one that will stay with me xxx

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AuroraXen

Oh sweetheart 😪 I'm so sorry. I haven't been where you are (the elusive BFP remains elusive for me 🙄) but I can just imagine how disappointed you must be. I just don't know why it has to be this hard 💔Sending lots of love xx

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Jrss1 in reply toAuroraXen

Thank you AuroraXen, it’s so nice of you to reply with such empathy. I’m hoping you get your BFP soon. It’s so tough isn’t it. Everyone on this deserves their miracle. I’m so glad I have all of you for support. It does help. Sending you loads of luck xxx

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Maybebaby008

So sorry. IVF is so tough. I don’t know how we keep going sometimes. Thinking of you xx

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Jrss1 in reply toMaybebaby008

Thank you so much xxx

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RubyVet

Sending you love xxx

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Jrss1 in reply toRubyVet

Thanks so much RubyVet xxx

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Alwaysbelieving

Thinking of you and sending lots of love, it’s the most heartbreaking time xxx

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Jrss1 in reply toAlwaysbelieving

Thank you so much, I really appreciate your text xxx

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JoyfulStar

Really sorry to hear this. Will have you in my thoughts 🙏🏾

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Jrss1 in reply toJoyfulStar

Thank you so much, you are very kind xxx

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ashalez

Really sorry to hear this,Lots of hug

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Jrss1 in reply toashalez

Thank you ❤️ xxx

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Annjali

Really sorry to hear this.Virtual Hugs.

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Jrss1 in reply toAnnjali

Thank you Annjali xxx

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Cinderella5

Awww I'm really sorry. I've been in this position too and it's really tough to have all your joy swiped away. Sending hugs.xx

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Jrss1 in reply toCinderella5

Thanks Cinderella5, I hope I get to your stage one day. I was so happy to see you post that you were pregnant with twins and then to see the gorgeous photo of them. How are you all doing? xxx

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Cinderella5 in reply toJrss1

I hope you do too!!🤞🏻 We are getting on ok thank you. They are 7 wks old jow and it has gone in a flash....a sleepy one at that, need match sticks for my eyes!!😂 Take some time to recover from this sad time and hopefully you'll be able to move forward soon.xxx

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RhinoCat

Sending hugs. It was the hardest journey to get that positive snd thats

Why it hurts so bad 😖😭 it’s just so crap.

No words make it better . You poor pet. Sending hugs of understanding 😘😘💐💐💐💐💐

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Jrss1 in reply toRhinoCat

Thanks so much RhinoCat, It is really tough because you think you’ve done it once you get the BFP and get so excited. If it happens again, I’ll be more cautious not to get so ahead of myself. Thanks for your kind words xxx

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bearblue

I just saw this! I’m so sorry Jrss1! Please take some time out and look after yourself before deciding you next move. We’re all here. Bless you! Sending you a hug .

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Jrss1 in reply tobearblue

Thanks bearblue, it’s so lovely to have all of you. It really does help to share and get everyone’s advice. Maybe one day it will happen for me. How are you doing? xxx

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bearblue in reply toJrss1

It will happen. I’m taking each day as it comes. I have a scan on Tuesday so I’ll know more then. That’s kind of you to ask. Thank you!

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FrancyItaly

I am so sorry to hear this. As the other ladies already said, it’s doesn’t matter how long it was into the pregnancy, you have lost your most precious thing. I’ve had a loss too in 2019 and I never got pregnant again. I will start my very first round of ivf soon and I am already scared. But we will get there one day. I don’t know your personal story, but if you got pregnant with your own eggs once it can happen again, I would give it another go when ready to try again. Message me if you want to talk 💕

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Jrss1 in reply toFrancyItaly

Hi FrancyItaly, thank you for your lovely words. It means a lot. I wish you the best of luck on your journey. I know it’s scary but if you get your Miracle it will be so worth it. Sending you loads of luck xxx

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