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As it says really, maybe I was naive going into this all thinking it would work for us 1st time but nothing can prepare you for seeing the result πŸ’” it is emotionally draining an nothing can prepare you for this.

Unfortunately none of our embryos made it to freeze so we will go again fresh an private hopefully next year 🀞🏻🀞🏻

I will continue to read the positive posts on here an love to see the strength from everyone on this journey πŸ’•πŸ’•

Xx

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Sas1101

So sorry to hear this Mar. Sending big virtual hugs. Good luck with your new cycle in the new year xxx

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Mar202035β€’ in reply toSas1101

Thank you πŸ’•

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stephben12

So sorry to hear πŸ’”πŸ’” be kind to yourself and take care 😘

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Mar202035β€’ in reply tostephben12

Thank you πŸ’•

Same here this morning lovely, BFN and nothing to freeze πŸ’”

I think I need some time out before thinking about a private round, just feel a bit numb...

Thinking of you xxx

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Mar202035β€’ in reply toJenniferKimberley

It really is πŸ’” I think we will do the same we are due to get married next summer so hopefully after we will go again,

Hopefully our next rooms will bring better news take care πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•

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Hope_1234

Awwww I am so sorry to hear this πŸ˜₯ sending a big hug. Take care of yourself ❀️xxx

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Mar202035β€’ in reply toHope_1234

Thank you πŸ’•πŸ’•

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Patches86

I’m so sorry ☹️ this was me last week. It’s heartbreaking. Look after yourself today and feel all the feelings and then do your best to pick yourself back up. Sending love x

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Mar202035β€’ in reply toPatches86

Really is πŸ’” nothing prepares you for it

Hope your ok too

πŸ’•πŸ’•

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EmyTW

This is me today. We got our official BFN. Feeling so deflated and low. This journey is so hard for all of us. Determined to focus on Christmas and happy things for a bit! Sending love to all X

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Mar202035β€’ in reply toEmyTW

It’s definitely a tough journey, nothing can prepare you for it, take care hopefully our next cycles be better πŸ€žπŸ»πŸ’•

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fay2399

πŸ’”πŸ’”

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Luna_79

So sorry to read this , I think most of us going into the ivf journey don’t truly know what it entails until you start going down that journey. I was completely nieve we told ourselves 1 day at a rule but when we have 2 x 5 day blasts from only 3 eggs and one I quote a β€˜beautiful embryo’ I thought we were home dry so couldn’t believe when I started to bleed on day 8 post transfer!

It’s torturous it truly is, and the pain you’re feeling can be overwhelming , but I promise whatever you’re feeling now , soon you will be ready to decide what you want to do moving forward.

As hard as it can be to see the positive stories sometimes without thinking when will that be me? I always find them a huge shining day of hope that little miracles do happen πŸ’•

Stay strong , sending you much love xx

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Mar202035β€’ in reply toLuna_79

Thank you so much for your reply luna_79, I felt exactly the same everything seemed to be going so well maybe I just too naive!

Sending you lots of love also hopefully some day soon our stories will be positive πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ€žπŸ»πŸ€žπŸ»

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Shazb123

Firstly, I want to say sorry your ivf cycle was not successful. I also had a failed cycle on my first round I passed each hurdle and was positive about my embryo transfer, however it wasn’t successful either. I had no eggs in the freezer- a similar situation to you. I still am find each month difficult but getting stronger after my failed cycle in August. Want to say you’re not alone, please don’t blame yourself, be kind to yourself and speak to people who make you happy and lastly take time out of your routine if you need to. Remember that this is a physical and emotionally draining process and ensure you’re ready when abs if you want to start your next cycle. Always here if you need to chat. Positive vibes to you xxx

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Mar202035β€’ in reply toShazb123

Thanks for replying shazzyb25 much appreciated, I’m sorry to hear your cycle failed also it’s def not easy for us. The positive stories on here do give hope, and Hopefully soon our stories will be more positiveπŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ€žπŸ»πŸ€žπŸ»

Much love xx

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