The title says it all really. I just wanted to update those of you who wished us well on our first transfer π
Unfortunately, it just wasnβt meant to be π
We both feel kind of numb and heartbroken at the same time. Definitely the hardest thing emotionally.
Trying to look for positives: Weβve got two more frosties at blastocyst stage so hoping all isnβt lost. Weβve also got our close friends wedding abroad to look forward to in June.
For now weβre thinking of taking a break from it all until after our friends wedding. We feel like we need to have some rest and recuperation from this relentless journey and re connect ourselves for a while.
We will definitely be back πͺπΌ
Until then, weβd like to wish you all the very best with your own journeys ππ sending you lots of baby dust π xxx
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I'm so sorry to hear about your BFN, its absolutely heart breaking. I am so glad youve got a lovely wedding to look forward to and give yourselves a bit of time, it will do you both the world of good. Thinking of you, and sending a big hug π xxx
Thank you so much Italy! Your support means more than you know πWe are really looking forward to the wedding, it will be a very welcome distraction xxx
Thank you lovely, it really is tough isnβt it?! I didnβt think Iβd get so upset when seeing the negative test result Iβve seen my fair share over the years but it absolutely broke me π thankful for all you fabulous warriors for keeping me sane through this! xxx
Ah yeah so tough. It feels such a build up. Bless you hun. I know it may not feel like it right now but you're so strong to get to this point and you've so got this and will make it through πͺ xxx ππ
Sorry to hear it wasnβt a lucky cycle for you, but great that you have two more Frosties - sending positivity your way for the other two. Go and enjoy the wedding, let your hair down and have your 2nd cycle when it feels right xx
So sorry to hear about your BFN. It's really tough. We always hope in the back of our mind that we will be one of those lucky ones where it'll happen first time and it can be a bit shocking when it doesn't. I still remember that from my first BFN. Good decision to take a little break.. and great that you've a lovely occasion to look forward to. I wish you lots of strength and send hugs xxβ€οΈβ€οΈ
Thank you for your lovely message Tryagain. I think youβre right, we were both hoping weβd be one of the lucky couples that found success from our first transfer but we definitely werenβt fully prepared for it to be a no.
A little break will do us some good I think π xxx
So sorry to hear this, it really is hard β₯οΈ but you sounds so positive and amazing . Good to hear you have two more embies waiting for when you're ready π₯°π«
Hi Littlepeax, thank you so much π weβre trying to stay positive as we realise that we are so lucky to be in a position to give IVF a go. Thereβs always, always someone worse off than us π xxx
Iβm so sorry it didnβt work out this time around but just wanted to say, your attitude is incredible and Iβm sure youβll come back stronger for your FET. Enjoy your holiday in June, sounds like the perfect tonic xxx
Sending hugs ππππ it defo takes a few days of up and down and also to get the extra hormones out of your system. I found the hardest part was being hopeful and trying to switch the hope off after it was over, guess it just shows ya that you can keep going .... if you have some hope left if that makes sense. Good idea to plan some non intense ivf things to look forward to. πππ»
Enjoy the freedom from injections and internal scans. ππππππ
Go fill your happy tanks up and youβll be ready to try again in no time,
Tight hugs of understanding πππππππππ
Yeah, that makes total sense! Without hope we have nothing, do we π I really appreciate your kind wishes and understanding, weβve only told my sister about our IVF journey but she has 3 beautiful, naturally conceived, gorgeous little ones so she doesnβt understand, as much as she does try.
Itβs just hard to explain to someone whose never been through it how hard it is to paint on your game face constantly.
Hoping to be straight back into it after the wedding.
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