Let’s start from repeating all test ...again

[Olivia1980xxx]

Hello girls . I haven posted since my BFN its was hard time to think what went wrong ...having transferred grade A+ embryo...

So I being researched a lot and going through my last cycle ...trying to think what was “so wrong “this time that couldn’t work like my cycle before that one...

After some research and advice I went 2day to GP and I booked appointment for this Friday with nurse to repeat all blood tests.. TSH, LH, PROLACTIN, THYROID , TESTOSTERONE and this time I ask for extra test clotting disorder .

My appointment in clinic is in 13 may so I will have all of them ready to bring with me.

Last time all this tests I had done last November and they was all good ...so I hope they stay like that..

After my BFN I had a period very heavy for like 11 days , now and again I had “milk” coming out and I experience headache everyday from last a week.

2 day in a morning only when I wipe I noticed very very light pink spotting with clear discharge...that was only till afternoon.

I know my body went through long cycle and need time to come back to normal but my 2 cycles before I never experience something like that ...

[Niki_B]

Hey hun I'm so sorry for your BFN I know how hard they are. I dont think doing more tests will do anything. Sometimes even perfect looking embryos will just simply be abnormal therefore cannot implant...even though visually they look perfect. I dont know how old you are but at my age (39 now) at least half of all my embryos/blasts will be abnormal at this stage as unfortunately this is what happens as we age. So it is nothing that you have done and yes an A+ embryo can still be abnormal unfortunately. But I do hope you have some better luck moving forward. Like my FS says its just a matter of perserverance and just finding the right (normal) embryo. Best of luck to you sweetie 😘💖💕 xxx

[Olivia1980xxx in reply to Niki_B]

Hi niki I’m 39 this year.

From my second cycle i had transferred one embryo grade A and I have a Beautiful 23 months old baby girl. That cycle left me as well with one frostie same grade.

Because of my age last November base on my AMH level 5.7 doctor recommended to go through fresh cycle.

We was on the same meds they only increase dosage of gonal f to 375iu .

Through that cycle my oestrogen level was over 300 because of a cyst on my left ovary which thy drain so I move on with injections.

They was happy after that I being responding well collecting 14 eggs with 10 was mature.

6 where fertilise.

In both last two cycles we use embryo glue and after ET I didn’t done anything different then I did before.

So from that cycle we have 3 grade A frostie.

Before transfer I had in my mind to put two back in but embryologist highly recommend only one so that what we did.

I know hun that my body change after having a baby ...and coming to 39 I wanna make sure that I do everything “right”from my side....

ivf is always 50/50 that will work ...but those test will clear “my mind “so we can know and decide what to do next...

This time I was bleeding for 11 days really heavy and with “bits “coming out .

Now from last week every day I experience headaches which I don’t get headaches.

My “milk” is coming out now and again.

2day in a morning when I went to toilet only when I wipe I noticed very very light pink spotting with clear discharge.

This time I will have a clotting disorder test done ..and I need to ask as well for scan to see if there is not any cyst.

I know that sometimes perfect embryo instead of implanting will just die.

I have one frostie from when I had my baby and 3 frostie from this one ...so before we decide to use any I need to know that my side is clear xx

How r u hun how u feeling?xx

[Niki_B in reply to Olivia1980xxx]

And that is fine hun you do whatever tests you want if it helps you clear your mind. More than likely it was just the embryo though. But sounds like you have a few good frosties waiting for you so you have a very good shot of 1 of them working or even more! So I wish you so much luck moving forward and hope you get your 2nd baby soon 😘💖💕

[Olivia1980xxx in reply to Niki_B]

Thank u hun .

Yours was FET ? Is any tips u can give me on what meds u was or what to expect if we decide to go that route. Xx

[Niki_B in reply to Olivia1980xxx]

Yes my 2 fresh failed and got lucky on my first FET. All I was on was prognyova and progesterone pessaries. I wont lie the prognyova was horrible for me at first I felt sick and headaches and just awful but that only last about a week or 2 but once my body got used to it it was ok and I felt fine. Some women it doesnt affect at all though so you dont know. FET was alot easier only 1 scan and blood test, no multiple scans and blood tests and egg collection so that was great. Plus my clinic confirmed what I already knew that FETs are more successful as you dint have all those hormones racing around your body from the injections. Xxx

[Niki_B in reply to Niki_B]

And I'm ok thank you just battling this contant anxiety thinking something is wrong...2 more weeks till my 12 week scan I just have to pray everything is fine 🙏🤞💕

[Olivia1980xxx in reply to Niki_B]

That was my 3rd fresh cycle and last one.

I just cannot go through that all process again...is to long and to much.

Doctor told us that frozen cycle is easier and kwik ..but progesterone pessaries need to be taken till 12 weeks .

I just hope all tests will come out normal so that part is clear and we can move on to next step...and I just hope I can give sibling to my baby girl.xx

How r u hun ? How many weeks u now?xx

[aamiller405]

Just wanted to wish you all the best. I never made it as far as implantation as had to do a freeze all but my cycle still hasn't settled either xo