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24 hours more to wait for FET.. :(

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Went today and was told they aren't developing well, that they are only 4 cells. Advised to defrost last 3 and see how this three do. Implant the best and pray

Next steps are to do more tests in sperm fragmentation

Not really sure what to think now

Gutted :(

Praying for a miracle between now and tomorrow at 0830am

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JoJo_1984

Fingers crossed for you πŸ™xx

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Twistedwillow

Sorry you didn't get the news you wanted but .... And it's a big BUT ... You are still in the game! Keeping fingers crossed for you and your little ones x

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anna0908

Sending good thoughts to your little frosties and hope one special one does the magic for you. Best wishes xxx

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Hannah143

I will pray for you πŸ™ Xxx

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liz1985

good luck for tomorrow waiting for them calls is so hard!!!!!!!!! xxxxx

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Helto200

Don't give up hope. Just another hurdle that I'm sure you are used to jumping over now. Keep strong. Good luck. Xx

Thanks girls,

All I can do now is hope and pray more xx

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Maria-Louisa

Good luck, thinking of you this morning, let us know how you get on xxx

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Aimaim77

Hope you got a positive call this morning xx

Hi girls

Mixed news today some good some not so.

The three they defrosted on Thursday are still alive but really slow.

They are keeping them another 48 hours to see what happens but said more for protocol than anything else.

The three defrosted yesterday are all OK, there is one really poor and two OK.

The two that are OK have 7-8 cells which is fine for the stage they are at but it ask depends how they carry on developing, if they carry on.

They said it's a B and a C at the moment.

They gave us a 30% chance.

They have only put those 2 back as the third one would not serve any purpose.

He said it's not impossible and that today's are better than yesterday's which is something.

I don't know how I feel. In kind of resigned to it now.

I feel that at least if they do more testing and can resolve the development issues for another try, are willing to give it another try, and the extraction is under anaesthetic then I can deal with it.

I know I sound pessimistic but I need to be realistic with what we have, I don't have a crystal ball to see how they are in the next 24 hoursπŸ€

We are hoping and prayingπŸ™πŸ»πŸ’•πŸ£πŸ’•πŸ™πŸ»πŸ’•πŸ£πŸ’•πŸ™πŸ»

Hubby is amazing, I couldn't love anyone anymore than I love him. He's everything to me, together we can get through this either way

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Sounds good and hopefully they will keep going. It only takes one xxx

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7-8 cells at day 3 sounds good. And I had 3 grade 2's and 3's make it to expanded blastocyst out of 4. The 30% is just the background stats for day 3 transfer. Think you have as much right to be optimistic as anybody. Don't give up yet! Best wishes for your 2ww xxx

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Aaah thanks honey, just wish I had a crystal ball not to look tomorrow to see if they continue developing or not :)

Guess we all do ;)

Big hugs and thanks for your words they mean allot x

Thanks button how's things with you

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Ok thanks just feels like it's dragging. Been feeling very dizzy and lightheaded the last couple of days x

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Oh dear :(

Not pleasant is it. Are you drinking and eating enough?

I'm just chilling today, had period type tummy all week with the progesterone so just trying to take everything easy and have faith.

Yesterday didn't believe we'd have anything to implant so one step at a time eh

When is your otd?

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Yes drinking and eating well. The dizzy spells come and go.

I have slept loads today. My OTD is the 4th (next Fri) me and hubby have took the day of so either way we can get our heads round it. Wishing and hoping πŸ™πŸΌπŸ™πŸΌ

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Aaah that's good, our otd isn't till the 15th. It's done on another island so needs a short flight.

If the same happens as last time my period came bang on day 30 of my cycle. Otd is day 38.

15 march

I'm trying to be realistic but it's hard not to be hopeful too.

Thinking positive maybe thoughts :)

Fingers and toes crossed all your symptoms lead to a bfp and a healthy pregnancy to follow honey xx

Aw thanks and you too. This is my first try using icsi, I am staying positive by thinking it only takes one, I had two egg retrieved and only one fertilised so no frozen ones. Think it's a bit of a lottery x

Thinking about you and keeping everything crossed xxxx

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